“[If the] relationship was as [the mother] states – controlling, violent, emotionally abusive – then returning a woman who has had those experiences to a situation where she’s potentially very scared and under threat would not be safe for her mental health.” “[There] are not concerns about [her] parenting currently, but any ongoing stresses which affect her mental illness further could result in an impact on parenting and I think the threat of her son being removed from her is a significant stress, in terms of her mental health.” “As far as I’m aware there were not concerns about parenting of her son prior to coming to England, when [she] was significantly depressed, and there have not been any concerns whilst she has been here, but I think the issue would be that if she went back, and I think a lot of this is sort of premised on the nature of the relationship, is that one cannot predict how she would cope in that situation where she feels there’s no hope, when she feels that she’s stuck in a place where she feels under threat, she feels socially isolated, she feels unsupported. And whilst treatment with antidepressants would help her, they would not, in my view, they would not lead to full resolution of symptoms and the loss of hope is a really significant factor in thinking about mental health, thinking about harm to self and, ultimately, any risk of harm to a child.” “[W]hen I’m talking about hope, … if an individual is a victim of domestic violence, the thought of being in close proximity to that person who was a perpetrator can be very frightening indeed and the thought of returning to that situation can be very frightening indeed …, so this is very much based on if there was domestic violence to the extent that she spoke about, which impacted adversely upon her, then being in that situation she is going to feel, it’s not necessarily that the reality is consistent with what her cognitions are, but in depression we think about negative cognitions and feelings of hopelessness. So being back in that situation and being faced with that situation can generate hopelessness. So it’s not always the case that people are thinking practically…” “Q. There is a distinction, is there not, between full recovery, which of course is what everyone hopes the mother will achieve in due course, and, on the other hand, trying to safeguard against a significant deterioration? They are not the same things. A. No, they’re not the same things, but the question is at what point does something become significant? For some people, you know, the severity of their depression might be moderate. Two different people. But different people cope with that depression, the moderate depression, in a different way, that their impact upon how they see themselves, how they see the world, can vary and how they cope with them. So whilst I, I would not want someone just to live with depression. I don’t feel that’s good enough. We need to be aiming towards recovery.” “Q. [B]earing in mind what we know about her parenting capacity in December of last year, I would suggest to you that if those [protective] measures were in place the risk of a substantial deterioration, such that her parenting capacity would be affected now. would have to be a small risk. A. … I would agree with that if those issues were there in safeguarding mother and that she doesn’t feel still under risk from father, that father also undertakes to abide by those measures, then you have conditions in which… I would feel more reassured about mother’s mental health. If mother faces any uncertainty about those issues then those would adversely affect her mental health.”
“97. All the points made by the mother are factors I have considered as set out above. I accept there is of course the need to consider the mother’s subjective fears but in accordance with the authorities I need to look critically at that and not just accept bare assertions not supported by the evidence. I also need to consider whether the mother’s fears are likely to destablise her parenting of J to a point where his situation would become intolerable. 98. The difficulty with the reconciliations, as I think Ms Jones accepts, is that the mother does not give any evidential detail to her assertion that this was due to pressure and manipulation whether by the father and / or by his family. She had protective court orders in place, sole occupation of the family home and orders to regulate the relationship between J and his father, but she abandoned these protective measures in favour of resuming her relationship with the father. Although her evidence is very detailed in parts, it is not detailed on this issue. This is also true of her assertion of family support. Ms Jones reminded me of the evidence of the mother’s brother which I have re-read. I have amended the judgment a little to reflect the detail of his evidence. However, no detail is given by the mother or her brother as to the actual support he provides or why that support would not be equally available to her in the USA. I also note from his evidence that family relations in England have become strained which I have referred to in the context of the mother having to move away from her family and into a refuge. With the professional support I accept this will be important going forward, but the father has produced evidence of agencies available in the USA and there is no evidence that the mother cannot or will not be able to access them.”
“12...Too ready an interference by the appellate court, particularly if it always seems to be in the direction of one result rather than the other, risks robbing the trial judge of the discretion entrusted to him by the law. In short, if trial judges are led to believe that, even if they direct themselves impeccably on the law, make findings of fact which are open to them on the evidence, and are careful, as this judge undoubtedly was, in their evaluation and weighing of the relevant factors, their decisions are liable to be overturned unless they reach a particular conclusion, they will come to believe that they do not in fact have any choice or discretion in the matter.”