“B may have been acting out through anger at the time and it is clear that on a number of occasions the mother considered that B had a developmental disorder. It would seem quite evident that the actual difficulty was (a) the mother’s instability of care; (b) her emotional and mood instability, chronic medical difficulties and probably depression at times; and (c) B having to assume a caring role with his mother and too high a level of responsibility for himself for a boy of his age”
“If [the mother] were to disrupt the placement the impact on B would be immense. B is loyal to his mother; he would witness his mother and aunt falling out, his mother being confrontational to his carer and B would feel responsible for his mother’s feelings. This has been demonstrated during the proceedings. In addition, [the mother] may make contacts difficult by placing emotional pressure on B. All of the above requires skilled care giving and a high level of resilience. [MA] is likely to feel isolated from her family as they do not wish to be involved and managing these very difficult, exhausting dynamics frequently is an exceptionally high level of responsibility. Due to these pressures, if the placement with [MA] were to break down then that would cause B further harm, feeling rejected by the only member of his family that felt able to care for him.”
“[53] The evidence was such that it was difficult for the judge to trust the parents to put AK's interests before their own as would be necessary if there were to be the period of calm which the judge considered to be necessary. A period of calm was an entirely justifiable objective as AK's welfare required that she should be able to settle into her placement with MGM in the context of the special guardianship order and, as the judge said in her conclusion, come to 'know that her home is with MGM and [her partner]'. This case was not, in my view, a run-of-themill case but an unusual one and it was open to the judge to conclude that AK's welfare required the imposition of a s 91(14) order. The period of the restriction was very much a matter for her discretion, knowing the parents as she did, and having formed her own assessment of the prognosis for change in the future.”