“I remind myself that the court should not set the bar too high, or discourage parents from making attempts to better themselves. Both parents have clearly taken steps to deal with their particular problems, and both should, as the local authority and guardian accept, be commended for that. On the face of it, their relationship has stabilised, and the father has taken steps to deal with his anger management. This is a particularly important step, because the father’s ability to control his anger was clearly a key factor in the care proceedings. There have been no further instances of domestic abuse (although I am mindful that, at this stage, I only have the parents’ word for that). In all the circumstances, I am satisfied that there has been a sufficient change in circumstances to justify a consideration of whether the court should grant leave to oppose the making of the adoption order.”
“33. If the court grants leave, it will in due course have to analyse, with the appropriate rigour, the various options for Y, of which adoption will be one. The court will need to weigh in the balance all the relevant factors, including the parents’ abilities to care safely for Y, either immediately or in the future, Y’s relationships with his wider family, in particular his siblings, his need for a stable and secure placement, and so on (this is not intended to be an exhaustive list). I am of course aware that I have already carried out that exercise once before, in considering the placement application, but nearly a year has passed since then, circumstances have changed, and Y has continued to have a relationship with his siblings. When I considered the placement application, I was of the view that the need to preserve a sibling relationship was outweighed by the greater degree of permanency, of ‘belonging’, that an adoptive placement offered. That may not be the case now, nearly a year on. Of course, I keep an absolutely open mind, but the advantage of granting leave is that these issues can be revisited, in the light of the changed circumstances, which must be to the benefit of Y when I consider his welfare throughout his life. 34. The granting of leave will inevitably mean further delay, but again that has to be considered in the context of Y’s welfare throughout his life, a period of 80 years or more on present life expectancies. There remain real concerns about the parents, not the least of which is their completely contradictory approaches to the findings I made in the care proceedings. Although they are in a relationship, the mother is clear that she opposes any review of the findings (and is therefore presumed to accept those findings), whilst the father’s very clear position is that he does not accept those findings, and does not accept that he was responsible for Y’s injuries. The parents lied about their relationship in the care proceedings, and there must be a very real risk that they are putting their need to be in a relationship with each other above the needs of any child in their care.”
“This is a finely balanced case. However, I do not think that the parents’ case lacks solidity. They have taken steps to deal with some of the concerns around their relationship, and I remind myself that, before Y’s injuries, there had been no real concerns about the mother’s parenting of the elder half-sibling who had been in her care. The parents ruled themselves out in the care proceedings, as they did not put themselves forward to care for any of the children. Further, the relationship between Y and his half siblings has continued and it is at least arguable that this needs to be re-evaluated as part of any welfare analysis of the competing options for Y. All of those factors lead me to conclude, on balance, that the parents have a solid case for opposing the making of an adoption order, and that leave should therefore be granted.”
“First, the court has to be satisfied that there has been a change of circumstances of a sufficient nature and degree. Only if there has been such a change will the court have a discretion to permit the parents to defend the proceedings, the child’s lifelong welfare being the paramount consideration in that decision.”
“when deciding either limb [i.e. of the two-stage process], the judge has a discretion whether or not to hear oral evidence. It will be perfectly proper, for example, for the judge in an appropriate case to assume as true the facts asserted by the parents, and equally proper for him to dismiss the application on the ground that it was not in the interests of the child for the parents to be given leave to defend the proceedings. It is not necessary for the judge to conduct a full welfare hearing unless the issues which arise for decision positively require such a hearing, or require oral evidence in one or more particular respects.”
“This statement does concern me due to the disruption this could mean to any placement and has an adverse impact on my view of direct sibling contact post adoption.”
“If a plan of adoption is endorsed for Y, the local authority proposed consideration of direct contact of twice yearly for [the siblings] or twice yearly letterbox if not. As previously discussed, it is my view that direct contact will not be possible, and I therefore support twice yearly letterbox contact.”