"In my view, the advantages for [J] being placed in his family and his relationship with his three older brothers who all adore him. The lifelong implications of being denied an opportunity to grow up with his siblings cannot be under-estimated. I am also mindful of the impact of adoption on the three older children, which will be considerable and resonate throughout their lives. If [J] was placed with Mrs [B], then he would also have the opportunity to have a relationship with his mother which to date has been very positive."