“The picture created by the evidence of children shown little or no attention, affection, or warmth by the parents, [and] deprived of any emotional responsiveness, is compelling. In [12-year-old]’s case instead of receiving encouragement and support she experienced scorn and impatience. Often, the children’s pleas for attention went unanswered, and then simply left to their own devices.… In short terms, the picture is disturbing and (particularly in [Mary]’s case) startling.”
“These were children [who] were especially vulnerable by reason of their learning disabilities. The bleak portrayal in the LA evidence of their lives whilst in the care of the parents, leaves me in no doubt that the harm which the children were suffering was significant, and could not be allowed to continue.”
“208. In the present case, the LA has not demonstrated that adoption for these children is required. On the contrary, the evidence points away from such a course being in the children’s best interests. I am satisfied that the consequences of placing these children for adoption would be harmful to them. 209. For the reasons I have set out, it is not in the interests of [Alice, Mary or Isla] to return to the care of their parents. In short terms, emotional harm, which underpinned the threshold criteria, still pertains, and is likely to continue to do so. 210. For the children’s sake, I hope [the parents] will listen to, and act upon advice from the social workers and other professionals regarding the need to address the issue of empathy, and emotional support. 211. Although, as matters stand, the children cannot return to the full-time care of their parents, I am satisfied their welfare will best be secured throughout their lives by remaining where they are, cared for by foster parents, who can meet all their needs during their minority, but still part of a family who love them and can contribute to ensuring that they feel loved and nurtured. 212. If the parents were foolish enough to seek to undermine the children’s placement in foster care – the evidence does not point to such a possibility being likely, then the court has power to make appropriate orders, reducing or suspending contact. If the parents apply in the future to discharge any care order, then such an application will be adjudicated upon by reference to its merits, the children’s welfare being the Court’s paramount consideration. 213. … In deciding in this case that adoption is not only not required, but is not the correct order, I take the view that I am entitled to have regard to the reality that [Alice, Mary and Isla] are thriving in the care of Mr and Mrs P, with whom they will continue to live under an order for long-term foster care. 214. For the avoidance of doubt, even if the Ps were to change their mind and withdraw their offer, I find that for the reasons I have given, principally: (1) The lack of evidence regarding the prospects of suitable adoption placement being found; (2) The risk that the three younger girls would be separated; (3) The detriment to them, and their sense of identity, of losing a direct relationship with their family, (4) The lack of any evidence of the impact upon the girls of (2) and (3). placement for adoption is not in the welfare interests of the girls.” placement for adoption is not in the welfare interests of the girls.”
“194. It is clear that [Alice and Mary] have become close. [12-year-old sister] clearly dotes on her siblings. Given that any separation would take place in several months’ time, when the children would be even more closely bonded together, it is difficult not to conclude that separating [Alice, Mary and Isla] would be devastating for them, exacerbated (in all probability) by the adopted child losing contact with their other siblings and wider family.”