“[34] I take into account the capability of the mother. As is set out in Dr Stevenson’s report, the mother has significant emotional needs of her own. Dr Stevenson is clear that the mother needs about 20 sessions of cognitive behaviour therapy, possibly more. I accept the mother’s evidence that she has asked her general practitioner to refer her to CBT and that he declined. I was told that the social worker has spoken to the GP on behalf of the mother. It seems that there is now a prospect of the mother being referred, but CBT has not yet started. I accept the evidence of Dr Stevenson and the children’s guardian that CBT will be challenging and difficult. In her oral evidence the mother said that she finds it difficult to deal with issues arising from her own childhood, and that she had blocked out her memories because her life as a child was so difficult. [35] I have no doubt her mother loves her children. She is fully committed to them. She wants to do what is best for her children. This is a very sad case as I have come to the conclusion that, however much the mother wants to care for her children, she does not have the capacity to do so. It may well be that once she has tackled CBT and gained greater insight and understanding into her own childhood and her own emotional problems, she will be in a position to build a stronger and healthier relationship with someone else who is supportive. It may well be that at that stage she might be in a position to meet the emotional needs of a child. I accept the evidence of Dr Stevenson and the guardian that, as the date of this hearing, the mother cannot do this. [36] Should I put off making a decision to see if the identified therapy does have the effect of change for the mother that Dr Stevenson believes is necessary? I have come to the conclusion that the timescale for this is far outside the timescale for these two children. No therapist has yet been identified, and there is no starting date. There is no guarantee as to how the mother will cope with the therapy. The children’s guardian’s evidence was that in her experience CBT can take eighteen months to two years. I find that the children cannot wait that long.”
“There be permission for the mother to file and serve by 4pm on20 June 2016 either a letter or a report from her therapist Adriana Cracknell as to her engagement with CBT and the need for further therapy as recommended by Dr Stevenson during the care proceedings.”
“I emphasise that giving the mother opportunity to file evidence from her therapist was one of the key reasons for allowing this adjournment, as all parties recognised that mother’s engagement in therapy was of particular importance, when considering any changes mother has made.”
“[7.85] [The mother] has been exposed to domestic violence in her own childhood between her parents, has been violent in relationships with peers in her school years and been victim/perpetrator of domestic violence in her relationship with [the father]. Individuals who have not processed their exposure to violence as a child, and continue to present with this as a difficulty in relationships throughout their child / adult years, are more vulnerable to experience domestic violence in the future. [7.86] Childhood trauma and attachment difficulties can negatively affect an individual’s emotional and social development, therefore, making it harder to process future stressful events and less likely that they will seek help from others (Howe et al. 1999). [7.87] However, currently, [the mother] reports not having received appropriate interventions and only beginning to appreciate some of the content that such work could involve. Unfortunately, the court bundle held no further information regarding resources that have been open to [the mother] to date. Therefore, it is possible that, with appropriate input, [the mother] would not repeat the cycle of domestic violence in her relationships.”
“In my judgment, mother has not sufficiently demonstrated that she has understood why the recommendation for CBT was made in the first place and why the production of evidence to show that mother undertook the work, engaged and benefited from the work is so important. Whilst it is argued by Mrs Obi-Ezekpazu that mother has amply demonstrated sufficient positive change through her lifestyle choices, in my judgment this is not sufficient given the level of concern about mother’s ability to protect her children and the personality difficulties described by Dr Stevenson. Without evidence of successful engagement in the recommended therapy, in my judgment, although there have been some positive changes, they are not sufficient to meet the test required under stage one of the two stage test.”