“C and D have five children of their own and C has twice been a gestational surrogate before. The parties met online for the first time in April 2015. They signed a surrogacy agreement in August 2015. C and A travelled to a clinic in Cyprus in September 2015 for the embryo transfer, using embryos created from A and B’s sperm and a donor egg from a Spanish egg donor which resulted in C’s pregnancy with H. A DNA test later confirmed A’s paternity. In circumstances which are disputed, the relationship between the parties deteriorated in February 2016, to the extent that, by early March 2016, there was no communication between them. C’s health had deteriorated due to difficulties with her back and she had to have keyhole surgery in January 2016. At some point in late March 2016, C and D sought legal advice and decided that they were not going to hand over the child to A and B, as had been agreed between the parties as recorded in the agreement they signed in August 2015. At this time, A and B were seeking to establish contact with C, but with no response. C gave birth to H in late April. It was a difficult birth and both she and H suffered ill-health immediately afterwards. They remained in hospital until6th May 2016 . The day before H’s birth, C and D’s then solicitor had written to A and B to inform them that they were not prepared to follow their surrogacy agreement and would not be giving their consent to a parental order. Even though there had been some correspondence with solicitors for the 10 days following H’s birth, it was not until about10th May 2016 that A and B were first informed of the birth. By that stage, C and D had registered H’s birth with the name they had chosen rather than the name chosen by A and B. C and D’s account for this delay in informing A and B is that it was due to the ill-health of C and E. Not surprisingly, A and B immediately issued legal proceedings following which arrangements for contact were made, and those arrangements increased to a shared care arrangement which has been in existence pending this hearing to determine the future care of H.”
“105. I agree that the management of the day to day parental responsibility should be as set out in para. 2(iii) of the closing submissions of Ms Fottrell. Those arrangements will give security in relation to the day to day planning and management of H’s life. 106. In relation to contact, I accept the recommendation made by [the Guardian] that contact should be on six occasions a year. I agree with her analysis that this will enable H’s primary attachments to consolidate. Bearing in mind the history, any higher frequency at this stage risks further undermining of A and B’s ability to care for H, which in turn gives rise to the risk of future emotional harm. I am satisfied A and B will promote H’s relationship with C and D. There should be discussions between the parties after this judgement regarding any arrangements for Skype or indirect contact between contacts.”
“This case is another example of the complex consequences that can arise from entering into this type of arrangement. Even though C was an experienced surrogate, this case demonstrates the risks involved when parties reach agreement to conceive a child which, if it goes wrong, can cause huge distress to all concerned. For all the adults involved, who all clearly love H, the one thing I know they will agree is that their dispute and this contested litigation has been a harrowing experience for them all. This case is another example of the consequences of not having a properly supported and regulated framework to underpin arrangements of this kind.”