“My assessment of the mother is that during the course of these proceedings, she has progressed significantly and her understanding of the importance of the relationship between A and her father, notwithstanding the breakdown in the parents’ relationship and the unhappiness which there had been in it, is much clearer now and much more significant and meaningful than it was. I considered that by the time she gave evidence at the final hearing she truly recognised the importance of the father’s relationship with A.”
“I consider it more likely than not that there was an occasion when the father was drinking and A had spoken to him about that, but whether or not he pulled A’s hair or gave her a karate chop, I have not sufficient evidence to conclude that that occurred. I note that I have not heard directly from A about that incident.”
“I made very clear findings. I considered that there was an occasion when the father was drinking …I did not find that the karate chop took place…So, on a binary basis, that would fall away.”
“I considered that there was insufficient credible evidence before me upon which I could conclude that the incident occurred as described by A. Nor could I conclude confidently that nothing occurred. Within that assessment I considered that there was a real possibility, and I put it no higher than that because I could not determine it did occur, that the incident may well have arisen out of the child’s perception of a joke that went wrong: the father nudging her (and the child not liking it) in much the same way as I found that there was a joke about the television being turned on and off.”
“Although inelegantly phrased, the actual words I used at the time were ‘I consider there is not enough for me to conclude that it did occur, but nor is there enough for me to say that nothing occurred.’ The reasons for my conclusion was that it appeared unlikely that A would simply fabricate an account from nothing, notwithstanding the fact that the father stressed that she had credibly lied to him about other matters during the course of the proceedings. I had reservations about the truthfulness of the father about what had happened. I considered that it was most likely that something had occurred which the child had not liked and had led her to speak to her mother about it.”
“I also found that I thought that in relation to the middle [incident], the nudge, that it was a possibility that there was a joke that had gone wrong.” and at C26 she said: “Whether father nudged A so that she fell from a chair during a supervised contact session, noting again that I have not heard from A about that, I consider that it is likely that something occurred but that that something could well have simply been a joke that went wrong in accordance with what I have seen. More than that I cannot say on the evidence before me, but I note that I have not heard from A.”
“…let me be clear, it is not proven, save that there may have been an incident which was in the nature of a joke that went wrong and that A did not like...That is what I meant by, ‘More than that I cannot say…’”
“I have made clear findings about what I think might have happened or was likely to have happened at the contact centre. That could have been a relatively innocuous incident.”
“In summary, I considered that an argument took place between A and her father. During that argument the father raised his voice. A was upset by what had occurred and called her mother, seeking to end contact early.”
“3. The paramount consideration for the Court in determining a question of this nature is the welfare of the child. In this case, therefore, the paramount consideration is A’s welfare. Within that analysis, however, there are, according to the relevant appellate decisions, a number of specific matters to which the Court should have regard and consider. The reason for that, in my judgment, is because it is only by doing so that the Court can properly reach a decision in difficult cases of this nature about what is truly in accordance with the child’s welfare.”
“In my judgment A’s desire to go to Ireland should not be taken to suggest that she did not like living in England. On the contrary, I saw evidence of, and read about, how much fun she has with her father and her father’s family. However, she wants to go and live in Ireland and spend time with her father and his family.”
“In my judgment the mother can accommodate, facilitate and encourage the emotional need A has to develop and maintain a positive relationship with her father.”
“21. …First, A wants to go to Ireland. If she believed that her father was standing in the way of that, she may – she may not but she may – begin to resent that. Further, the mother very clearly wants to go to Ireland. In my judgment the mother’s unhappiness at not being able to do so would, in my judgment, inevitably affect A even if she tries to hide it. A is a bright little girl and I considered it likely that she would understand what was happening. 22. I was also concerned that the father was seeking, to some degree, to control the mother by preventing her from going to Ireland. If that were to continue, that in my judgment would cause considerable distress and harm to both parents and to A.”
“23. A needs a relationship with her father. She can have that staying in England, but she can also have that if she moves to Ireland. On balance, I considered that although the contact arrangements would be different, they would be, in my judgment, just as effective and meaningful.”
“My assessment has been of the parties in court, of having watched them, because this is a case where I have managed to achieve judicial continuity, and having watched them and heard their evidence and seen their evidence in the documents before the court.”
“26. The relationship between A and her father has weighed heavily on me throughout this decision making process. I considered that K should spend considerable time with her father…”
"The exigencies of daily court room life are such that reasons for judgment will always be capable of having been better expressed. This is particularly true of an unreserved judgment such as the judge gave in this case … These reasons should be read on the assumption that, unless he has demonstrated the contrary, the judge knew how he should perform his functions and which matters he should take into account. This is particularly true when the matters in question are so well known as those specified in section 25(2) [of theMatrimonial Causes Act 1973 ]. An appellate court should resist the temptation to subvert the principle that they should not substitute their own discretion for that of the judge by a narrow textual analysis which enables them to claim that he misdirected himself."