"9. The full background history to this matter is set out in paragraphs 10-18 of the fact finding judgment: 'The parties, who are both of Afghani origin, married in June 1999. Each contends the marriage was turbulent. In 2011 the mother alleged the father had been violent to her. He was arrested and released on bail with a condition that he not reside at the former matrimonial home. Three months later the police notified the father that they were taking no further action in respect of the mother's complaint. When the father attempted to return to the family home the mother denied him entry. He commenced proceedings in the county court for an occupation order and a non molestation order against the mother. He also applied for residence orders in respect of the children. After some months, however, the parties agreed to effect a reconciliation and on26 March 2012 the private law proceedings were concluded with the consent of both parties. On6 August 2014 the mother made a complaint to the police that the father had sexually assaulted her and blackmailed her on24 July 2014 . On7 August 2014 the mother made a further complaint to the police that the father had sexually assaulted her a number of times between March 2013 and March 2014. The father was arrested, interviewed and bailed with a condition that he must not reside at the family home. On 10 September the parties were notified by the police that no further action would be taken against the father and that his bail would be cancelled the following day. It is the mother's case that it was shortly before these events that the mother discovered that the father had taken a second wife. The emotional and psychological impact of this on the mother cannot be overstated. On 11 September the father attended the family home in the company of a police office. There was no one present. The father entered the property and changed the locks; the property was rented and the tenancy was in his name. The mother returned. The father refused to let the mother into the house. An argument ensued. YU was present. Both called the police who attended. The mother was advised she would have to secure alternative accommodation. In the police records, which the mother disputes, it noted that the parties reached an agreement that the children would remain living at home with the father until the mother had secured an alternative property. In the event YU remained with the father and the mother collected the older three children from school and took them to the home of a friend. They remained living there for a few days until the mother obtained a property from the local council. I note the mother alleges she had been served with a notice to quit by the landlord of the family home which expired on 21.9.14. In preparation for the pending move the mother had started packing the children's clothes and told them they would have to move to a new home. On or shortly after 11 September the mother accepts she told the 3 older children that their father had thrown them out of their home and had told the mother that she and the children could sleep on the streets. This was not the first time, nor sadly the last, when the mother was wholly negative, in what she told the older children about the father.' 10. I made the following findings of fact against the mother at paragraphs 32 and 33 of that judgment: 'The mother gave evidence over the course of two days. She was, I regret to find, a most unsatisfactory and unreliable witness. She either lied about significant events and allegations or greatly exaggerated or embellished what had in fact happened. I so find for the following principal reasons: I) the mother alleged the father assaulted SaU on two occasions in late 2013. On the first occasion she said the father beat SaU on the head and then locked her in a cupboard or storage room. In evidence, however, the mother said the father slapped SaU so many times in the face and she was crying so much that she could not talk. The mother could not explain why this later account of the event was not in either of her statements; II) the older 3 children spoke to Ms Odze about an event when the father locked SaU in a cupboard. The father denies he did so. There may have been an event when the father had cause to discipline SaU -- perhaps inappropriately -- but given the degree to which the mother, by her own admission, has involved the older three children in the parental dispute, I am of the view I should be very cautious in placing any weight on comments made by the children to the CAFCASS Officer or other professionals.; III) on a another occasion it is alleged the father pulled SaU's hair and slapped her. It is agreed there was an incident between SaU and the father which caused SaU to call the police. Given the alacrity with which the parents have involved the police in their marital disputes, I am less surprised than might otherwise be the case that SaU followed the course so frequently taken by her parents. In evidence the mother confirmed that the father had pulled SaU's hair and beaten her. This account of events does not accord with the police log of the incident, namely: "
"I find the mother assaulted the father in June 2014. I find that she has caused the children -- especially the three older children -- emotional harm by reason of her wholly inappropriate and negative comments and outbursts against the father. The father had an enjoyable holiday with the three older children in Barcelona in August 2014. By late September they refused and still refuse to see him. In my judgment their change of view of the father is primarily driven by the views of the mother, however, the father has not ameliorated the position by some of his actions prior to the marital breakdown."
"Based on the information available to me at this point, I have formed the opinion that it is more likely than not that the mother cut Y's hair during the contact session on30 January 2016 ."
"At the conclusion of her evidence, during re-examination, the mother was asked by her counsel whether there was anything else she wished to say. In response and in English she [it must be] then launched into a tirade against the father. She accused him of being a liar. She said she would not trust him with the care of any of the children. It was not just the words the mother used to deliver her invective against the father that greatly concerned me, it was the vehemence with which she did so in a state of very high and uncontrolled emotion. It was redolent, indeed completely at one, with the mother's views as expressed during the course of her evidence at the fact finding hearing."
"40. There is only one explanation, in my judgment, for that passage [in the tape of the contact session] and that is that the mother asked to be given a pair of scissors and then cut Y's hair in a 'disfiguring' fashion. Her contrary explanation is a lie. Her claim to have been 'shocked' when she saw a photograph of Y taken by his father is a lie. Her allegations that the father cut Y's hair and that he bribed the transcriber and/or translator to produce a false or inaccurate transcript are baseless and without any foundation. I find they are all lies. 41. If that were not bad enough the evidence is clear that the mother 'recruited' the older children to deny seeing her cut Y's hair to the father and to Dr Asen. I consider that to be an extremely disturbing course of action. It well illustrates that the mother will stop at nothing in her campaign against the father even to the emotional and psychological harm to her children. Moreover, not even after the benefit of intensive family therapy with Dr Asen over the course of the last eight months."
"42. I find there is no prospect in the foreseeable future of the mother changing, in a meaningful and sustained way, her past and current damaging behaviour as I have described in the fact finding judgment and the preceding paragraphs of this judgment. Further I find there is no prospect of the mother promoting a positive relationship between the children and the father. I find that there is no prospect of the mother desisting from actively involving the children in her campaign against the father."
"I accept, without reservation, that it is positively harmful for the children to remain in or, as the case may be, to be placed in the care of the mother given her enduring and entrenched views against the father and his second wife. Therefore, I find it is in the welfare best interests of all four children to move to live with their father. I will, however, only make a child arrangements order in favour of father in respect of F and Y. I hope that in due course, once F is settled in his father's care, that S and S will come to see and understand that their welfare best interests would be better served by living with their father and their two younger siblings. Thus for the reasons given by Dr Asen, set out in paragraph 33 above, I do not propose to make a child arrangements order in respect of the girls."
"... whether your Lordship would think it appropriate, bearing in mind particularly the ages of the eldest two, whether they should have a guardian in these proceedings."
"[The children] would have a say in proceedings affecting the future and the only way that that would be possible would be through a guardian. You raise it, my Lord, because it seems to me ..."
"I understand why you raise it. My view at the moment is given that it appears to me that the three children, including the 15 year-old, had a perfectly happy relationship with their father when they went to Barcelona in August, and they have been completely alienated by the mother, that there would be at the moment little point, it strikes me. It would neither be necessary nor proportionate for them to be separately represented at this stage, but thank you for raising it."
"Where there is an intractable dispute over residence or contact, including where all contact has ceased, or where there is irrational but implacable hostility to contact or where the child may be suffering harm associated with the contact dispute; ... (e) where an older child is opposing a proposed course of action; ... (i) where the proceedings concern more than one child and the welfare of the children is in conflict or one child is in a particularly disadvantaged position."
"It is now as evident as it has ever been that as long as the intense inter-parental warfare continues, and sadly with both parents being actively involved in fuelling the conflict, all four children remain at severe risk of continuing to suffer significant emotional harm if they remain exposed to their parents' highly acrimonious relationship."