‘We are a family. We have an extended loving family in which B and E are central and are cherished. They are loved and adored. I believe they would be devastated to be removed from us.’
‘67. As to J, I formed the clear impression that she was a genuine witness, she is a caring person and I think she is committed to her proposal to care for these two children. I think she has a good understanding of children and children’s needs, and I also do not consider that she was minimising the difficulties. I think she has thought about the difficulties, is aware of them and has realistic plans to tackle those difficulties. Finally, it struck me that she was the sort of person who would be willing to take professional advice when it was available. 68. As to the foster carer, Y, I have to say I found her an impressive witness. I thought that she was very insightful in relation to the children, it is clear to me that she cares greatly for these children and I think she has cared for them to a high standard. It seemed to me that she is the sort of person who would always seek to put the children first.’
‘… she explained in her evidence that the main reasons for her decision were firstly the importance of sibling contact, of the fact that the children had been there for so long and were established, and the potential for the children having mental health difficulties and the added importance therefore of not disrupting them at an early stage in their lives.’
‘the needs of the children are of course the needs of any child of that age: they both need a stable, loving and supportive home where they are kept safe and where their needs are met.’
‘(c) the likely effect on him of any change in his circumstances;’
‘(c) the likely effect on the child (throughout his life) of having ceased to be a member of the original family and become an adopted person;’
‘80. (c) refers to the likely effect on the child of any change in circumstances. That is the 1989 Act. Of course the 2002 Act is rather different, referring to the effect on the child throughout his life, having ceased to be a member of his original family and become an adopted person. In terms of a change in circumstances, staying with Y clearly involves very little change, if any change. There would be a change of legal status but that would not really affect the children; they would be staying in the same home they have been for a long time, they are very settled there and doing well. The move to J would be a big change, there is no question about it. There would be a change of language, a change of country, a change of carer and the change would be a very substantial one for both children, albeit that they would be together were that to be the order made. I bear in mind also the fact which emerges from the evidence, which is due to the very high standard of care that both children have received and the secure attachments that they have formed, the prospects of them being able to transfer those attachments are better than they might otherwise have been, and indeed are reasonably good. That is really a positive reflection on the very good care provided for them by Y. The effect on a child throughout his life of having ceased to be a member of his original family and become an adopted person is clearly an important consideration to bear in mind in this case, in relation to both children.’
‘(f) how capable each of his parents, and any other person in relation to whom the court considers the question to be relevant, is of meeting his needs;’
‘(f) the relationship which the child has with relatives, and with any other person in relation to whom the court or agency considers the relationship to be relevant, including – (i) the likelihood of any such relationship continuing and the value to the child of its doing so, (ii) the ability and the willingness of any of the child’s relatives, or of any such person, to provide the child with a secure environment in which the child can develop, and otherwise to meet the child’s needs, (iii) the wishes and feelings of any of the child’s relatives, or of any such person, regarding the child.’
‘88. What of J and Y? In terms of their capability and ability to meet the children’s needs, the court and more importantly the children are fortunate in that the court is presented with two very good alternatives, in that both J and Y are highly competent carers. In my judgment the evidence is that Y has provided and would continue to provide a very high standard of care. J similarly has come through a rigorous assessment and come through it with a positive recommendation, which I accept, as a very capable carer.’
‘105. The primary reasons I have come to that conclusion are these: firstly, this is a placement with close family, which I consider to be inherently desirable and entirely normal for children from this background. Secondly, I think it is a practical and manageable plan and I think J will care for these children very well. Thirdly, I think that the children will suffer some disruption in such a move but I think there is a good prospect that this will be managed well and that they will therefore be able to manage the change well, particularly because of the excellent care that Y has provided and her ability, together with that of J, to cooperate and help in implementing the transition plan, which I think is going to be very important for these children. Fourthly, I consider that J will maintain links with siblings and family, and although they will in fact see them less, at least for the short term, nevertheless those links will be maintained in the long term. I think that is very important for these children. Fifthly, this is a position which is supported by both parents, which I think is important both in the short and in the long term.’
‘… it is generally accepted by those who are professionally concerned with children that, particularly in the early years, continuity of care is a most important part of a child’s sense of security and that disruption of established bonds is to be avoided whenever it is possible to do so. Where, as in this case, a child of two years of age has been brought up without interruption by the mother (or a mother substitute) it should not be removed from her care unless there are strong countervailing reasons for doing so. This is not only the professional view, it is commonly accepted in all walks of life.’
‘We are a family. We have an extended loving family in which B and E are central and are cherished. They are loved and adored. I believe they would be devastated to be removed from us.’
‘… the fact that the children had been there for so long and were established, and the potential for the children having mental health difficulties and the added importance therefore of not disrupting them at an early stage in their lives.’