“Histrionic personality disorder: • His seeking or demanding reassurance, approval or praise; • He is uncomfortable in situations in which he is not the centre of attention; • He displays rapidly shifting and shallow expressions of emotion; • Are self-centred, actions being directed towards obtaining immediate satisfaction; he has no tolerance for frustration; • His style of speech is excessively impressionistic and lacking in detail. Narcissistic personality disorder: • He reacts to criticism (real or perceived) with feelings of rage; • Shame or humiliation (even if not overtly expressed as such); • He is interpersonally exploitive taking advantage of others to achieve his own ends; • He has a grandiose sense of self-importance, e.g. exaggerating his achievements or talents; • Expects to be noticed as “special” even without appropriate achievements. The corollary of this is his denigration of others without relevant cause; • He believes his problems are unique and can only be understood by other special people; • He is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty or ideal love; • Has a sense of entitlement and unreasonable expectation of especially favourable treatment; • Lack of empathy, inability to recognise and experience how others feel.” • His seeking or demanding reassurance, approval or praise; • He is uncomfortable in situations in which he is not the centre of attention; • He displays rapidly shifting and shallow expressions of emotion; • Are self-centred, actions being directed towards obtaining immediate satisfaction; he has no tolerance for frustration; • His style of speech is excessively impressionistic and lacking in detail. Narcissistic personality disorder: • He reacts to criticism (real or perceived) with feelings of rage; • Shame or humiliation (even if not overtly expressed as such); • He is interpersonally exploitive taking advantage of others to achieve his own ends; • He has a grandiose sense of self-importance, e.g. exaggerating his achievements or talents; • Expects to be noticed as “special” even without appropriate achievements. The corollary of this is his denigration of others without relevant cause; • He believes his problems are unique and can only be understood by other special people; • He is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty or ideal love; • Has a sense of entitlement and unreasonable expectation of especially favourable treatment; • Lack of empathy, inability to recognise and experience how others feel.”
“That the child has so expressed herself, I find in order to please her father, for her father has this fundamental and overwhelming need to be right and loved, including to be loved by his daughter at any price, the narcissistic personality disorder. I find as a fact that that father has coached the child; there is no other reason why the child should be so expressing herself.”
“The contact will be subject to continuing review, it’s not cast in stone. The review recommended is every 3 months. I agree and I want this local authority to take a particular note of what I am about to say; the review must be proactive and must also be monitored by the head of social services of the local authority to give some reassurance to the father. I find such contact to be necessary, proportionate and Article 8 compliant.”
“3. The court impressed upon the local authority the need for father’s contact to be reviewed frequently at least every three months and this review to be monitored by the Director of Social Services. 4. The local authority agreed to review father’s contact at least every three months.”
“P’s parents have been involved in long and difficult private law proceedings. A referral was received by the local authority in relation to an injury which was explained (sic) bruising to P’s forehead which was allegedly caused whilst P was in the care of her mother at her grandparent’s home. The police have investigated this matter and a Section 47 enquiry was undertaken and have concluded with no action being taken against (mother). P’s case has been considered within public law proceedings which concluded at the end of February this year, and P is now subject to a care order made on28th February 2013 and is placed with her maternal grandparents. P’s mother also resides at the same address. P continues to enjoy a regular contact with her father, which is supervised by the local authority on a fortnightly basis.”
“It is quite plain to me that his (the father) view of the world is distorted as a result of suffering from these two personality disorders.” 37. And at paragraph 51: “I repeat, it [is] his illness that is the problem; it is the disorder that is the problem; and that has not changed since the decision of Recorder Goldrein QC, understandably, because it has not been treated, and until it has been treated I can see little or no prospect of an alteration in his behaviour, or in his distorted view of the world, or indeed in his situation in the world. The expression that comes into my mind and is often quoted in this context is that used by the doctor in Macbeth….who described these sort of disorders as a “rooted sorrow”
“It is also equally obvious to me that he clearly loves his daughter very much indeed, and equally clear that she reciprocates that love and affection.”
“I repeat that I strongly suspect that, but for the personality disorders which father has, he would make an absolutely excellent father, but he has these two personality disorders and that stops him from behaving in a rational fashion.”
“97. (The Children’s Guardian) repeats in her oral evidence that father had coached (P) in the past. She said there are very subtle messages given to her, for example providing her with his address, and he appears to take P back to the time with him, for example by taking her hair down and playing music which relates to the time she was living with him. These things may be small for father but they are big for P, and she is an emotionally fragile girl, and it is, she said, within the context of her as an individual that this behaviour has a particular impact. I suggested to her that the behaviour might be simply because P was missing her father; she pointed out the obvious flaw in that hypothesis which is if the behaviour was due to missing him then it would have got better when there was more contact, but it did not. P’s behaviour has improved as a result of reduction of contact. 98. Whilst the Guardian was (as am I) in no doubt as to the reciprocated love between father and daughter, the answer as [to] the cause of the behaviour of the child after contact is not because P is missing him, it is because of the behaviour of the father during contact.” (Emphasis from original judgment).
“124. The truth is this, and it really is as simple as this; if father altered his behaviour then contact could increase. He has not altered his behaviour, and of course he cannot because he has these personality disorders, and so therefore contact cannot increase. There will be no progress until his personality disorder is treated. 125. As a result of that I have absolutely no hesitation at all in dismissing his application for increased contact, and it will remain at four times a year until there is an alteration either in the behaviour of P after contact, or by the father during contact. 126. Of course the conditions which the local authority and the Guardian wish me to impose on contact, if he abides by those despite his personality disorder, then all should be well. Whether he will or not of course remains to be seen.”
“142. The applications that have been made to this Court by father, in my judgment, could not possibly have been in P’s best interests, and those are for all the reasons set out in the Children’s Guardian’s position statement at that point (see paragraph four). I am satisfied that it is very much in P’s best interests that such an Order be made. 143. Considering all the relevant circumstances, although this is not exhaustive: (i) Father has tried to use the Court as a form for ventilating matters that went to a challenge of an Order of not only the County Court but also as upheld in the Court of Appeal. In a legal sense that amounts to an abuse of process of a very fundamental kind; (ii) It went to pursuing a complaint as to corruption against the Local Authority; (iii) He attempted to have his daughter give evidence in this Court; (iv) He has occupied approximately five days of Court time issuing applications that are, in my judgment, utterly devoid of any merit whatsoever; (v) He has embroiled the maternal grandparents and the mother in what they describe as a campaign (and I accept that description, it is a campaign) with no consideration of whether that would be appropriate or not; and (vi) I accept again without hesitation that that application and their involvement in these proceedings has had an adverse impact on the mother and the maternal grandparents, both financially and emotionally. They need to devote their energies to caring for a vulnerable child, not defending themselves against baseless charges of neglect and emotional abuse from father, on which (as I have indicated) are entirely without foundation and which I have dismissed. (vii) I have also no doubt that until father’s personality disorders are treated his behaviour will continue in the same or a similar vein. 144. The imposition of an Order pursuant to Section 91(14) of course, does qualify the right of father to bring proceedings, but only if those applications are without merit; if the applications are meritorious then permission would be granted. That would mean that his Article 8 and Article 6 rights would be preserved, and of course the advantages that the Children’s Guardian would be joined as a party to any such applications for permission, and therefore there would be independent input into consideration of what those merits were. 145. I of course remind myself (though I will not need to remind anyone in Court) that it is P’s interests that I protect; her right to a private and family life, and not that of father. 146. In my judgment, if ever there was a case where an Order under Section 91(14) was appropriate then this is it. Again, it is not a finely balanced decision at all.”
“If he is unsuccessful in his application for discharge of a care order he wishes there to be a substantial increase in contact, both supervised and unsupervised.”
“Unfortunately it appears that [mother] got social services involved and expressed concerns that [father] may be a risk of emotional harm to [P].”