“It may be necessary to do some work with [T] and [W] to ascertain the basis on which they are each making their decisions as well as the degree to which their views may have been influenced by the adults with whom they regularly come into contact”
“AND UPON it being agreed between the parties that in the circumstances of the children wishing to have direct contact with the father at times when they have contact with their paternal grandparents such contact is permissible.” “AND UPON it being agreed that the form of words in Annex 1 attached [is] to be conveyed to the Children by their Children’s Guardian and solicitor by way of explanation as to the outcome of these proceedings. Annex 1 “Mum and Dad have agreed that:- 1. Dad can continue to send T and W letters, cards and presents every month and for birthdays and Christmas. T and W can reply if they want. 2. T and W can continue to see Grandma and Grandad and speak to them on the phone as often as they want; 3. It is up to T and W to decide if they want to see Dad in future, alone with Grandma and Grandad; 4. Mum and Dad have discussed this with the judge who thinks it is a good idea.”
“I thought what I had agreed back in 2012 was a plan put together that works towards the boys having contact with their father but the respondent gave up on this after two months.”
“And upon [the Cafcass officer] indicating to the court that there are no safeguarding or welfare issues, and that in light of the extensive involvement of Cafcass in the past, that it may be harmful to the children to embark on further investigations. And upon the Applicant father indicating that he does not wish to pursue his application for contact with T given his age”
“… for there to be some break, some reassurance, some sense for those boys that there should not be any of these further applications for a while”
“I took the view that it would not be appropriate, bearing in mind the welfare of the two children, to order direct contact.”
“Dealing with family law issues can make for contentious situations, which is why these cases are conducted with extreme care, as the effect on one’s personal life as the result of a court ruling can be immense. It is for this reason that family law situations are treated with great tact in order to ensure a fair outcome for all.”