“44. Whilst I accept that there has been some improvement in the monthly contact that has been taking place, in particular the mother herself has been far less emotional than had previously been the case, the evidence is that the mother does not try to reassure the children, nor does she take a real interest in their lives with the father and she does not try to promote their relationship with the father. Also her offer to withdraw her application for the residence order, now looks very hollow in the light of what she sets out in her written submissions.”