“The court must accept the evidence and recommendations of the Cafcass Officer unless there are cogent reasons to depart from the recommendations. For the reasons outlined the court finds there are not the grounds to depart from Ms Beer’s recommendations.”
“The court has considered the case law provided by Counsel in relation to this application. The Court has considered the welfare checklist and the paramoncy principle. The Court has not granted an Order for PR [parental responsibility] because it has been established that this mother has such a real fear of father playing any role in her child’s life. If father were to exercise the inherent powers of PR we are satisfied that this would significantly adversely affect Rhys’s future stability and wellbeing.”
“I just want to go back to the parental responsibility. They dismissed the application not actually for the wrong reason, they dismissed it because they were alert to the danger that an exercise of parental responsibility by the father would be likely to occasion the same type of harm to Rhys as would direct contact. But the central reason that they could have relied upon was that he had no existing or sufficient relationship with Rhys beyond the biological connection, and had sadly, this is not his fault, the opportunity to demonstrate a commitment to the child in any meaningful sense. There can be no criticism of the decision on parental responsibility. They were plainly right about that.”
“I will give permission to appeal the parental responsibility order. The contact order is much more difficult. This was a finding of fact made by the Justices but because it is getting close to Christmas and not much will be added by dealing with contact, I will for that compelling reason allow the appeal on contact to proceed.”
“These are wholly separate applications and it should be understood by now that a parental responsibility order is one designed not to do more than confer on the natural father the status of fatherhood which a father would have when married to the mother. There is also a sad failure fully to appreciate, when looking at the best interests of the child (which are paramount in this application, as elsewhere) that a child needs for its self-esteem to grow up, wherever it can, having a favourable positive image of an absent parent; and it is important that, wherever possible, the law should confer on a concerned father that stamp of approval because he has shown himself willing and anxious to pick up the responsibility of fatherhood and not to deny or avoid it.”
“a child needs for its self-esteem to grow up, wherever it can, having a favourable positive image of an absent parent”
“Where there are significant difficulties in the way of establishing safe and beneficial contact, the parents share the primary responsibility of addressing those difficulties so that, in time, and maybe with outside help, the child can benefit from being in a full relationship with each parent.”
“Parents, both those who have primary care and those who seek to spend time with their child, have a responsibility to do their best to meet their child’s needs in relation to the provision of contact, just as they do in every other regard. It is not, at face value, acceptable for a parent to shirk that responsibility and simply to say ‘no’ to reasonable strategies designed to improve the situation in this regard.”