“I do not want my beloved child to remain associated in any form with these people as I can see no benefits.”
“I know that Staffordshire County Council may try to put me in prison again for speaking out and blowing the whistle of the perverting of justice by organisations mentioned, but I want my rights respected as a Dad and to encourage my child to return home. She needs to be in a safe, adoption-trained environment, away from Staffordshire County Council, and at a school [and then he names a school] that is more accountable than the one that she currently attends.”
“16. CONTESTED ISSUE ONE. BB25 at paragraph 1 contains the allegation that the father sent what is described as a ‘friend request’ to [M] on Facebook. The allegation is made in [M’s] affidavit at BB115 and the social worker’s affidavit at BB62. The father denies the allegation. He accepts that he has a Facebook account containing his name, [Mr B]. He told me last time that he did not really know but it was possible that his account was marked [Mr B] of South Africa as alleged. He would, of course, love to re-establish contact, but he told me that he recognised that it would be unhelpful to send a message of this kind. He knew that it would put him in breach of the injunction order and accordingly he was clear that he had not sent the message alleged. He speculated as to whether it might have been sent to [M] by one of her friends. He speculated as to whether [M] was making an entirely untruthful allegation against him. 17. I have to be cautious about this allegation. No-one else has seen this friend request, apart from [M]. Her evidence for good reason is hearsay evidence, but that means that it has not been actively tested before the court. The father says that [M] can be deceitful, as a consequence of attachment difficulties, he quoted examples, but these were not the social worker’s experience of her dealings with [M]. I only have [M’s] evidence in the form of an affidavit but there is a reference to her skin crawling which has a convincing tone about it. In earlier hearings I have had to address credibility issues in this case. There is, of course, here a different standard of proof and I have reminded myself of the fact that [Mr B] has been found to have lied in the past does not mean he is an untruthful witness today on other topics. 18. My conclusion is that sending a friend request on Facebook to [M] is an action totally consistent with this father wanting to re-establish contact with [M]. Totally consistent with a father who has sought to cause trouble for her before. The alternative that [M] has invented this allegation is for me totally inconsistent with a young girl who is wanting to make a life without him. I am sure that [Mr B] did send this request and that he knew it represented a breach of the injunction order. I accept that the effect has been to shock and frighten [M]. It is clear that this finding represents a breach of paragraph 1.3 of the harassment order, in that [Mr B] was contacting M in breach of that provision.”
“I am sure that his purpose of doing so was to cause [the foster carers] embarrassment and trouble. His purpose was to undermine the foster-carers and advance the day when [M] left their care. In the circumstances I reject his assertion that his motive was benign. I accept that he did cause harassment and there is an aggravating feature that he was intending to harass for ulterior motives.”