“...it was equally possible...that the allegations have arisen as a result of suggestive questioning and anxiety.”
“She said that a plausible or possible explanation was that [J] had described what father had done, mother had over-reacted and from thereon it all goes running, and run it does, with repeated questioning of the child, the total collapse of the marriage, police intervention which does not satisfy the mother and inordinate delay in bringing this matter to court. I find that an astute analysis and I would go a little further and say that it seems to me -- and I have material so to find, and do -- that between the day of the digital rectal examination, to use that term, and [J] saying what he did to the mother, I (a) bear in mind the fraught atmosphere between the adults, (b) bear in mind -- and so I find -- that there was a defecation problem, both parents considered that constipation was a possible problem, to which I add this, that [J] would have been aware that his bottom, and its behaviour was a matter about which the adults were aware and concerned.”
“Placed finger into son’s bum.”