"... [L] again asks her father not to tell mummy and he specifically promises her 'I won't talk about anything [L], I can assure you that. I am not ‘gonna rock the boat.'"
"I agree it is a sad pattern. The stopping and starting of contact cannot be helpful to the children's emotional development. However I conclude that [Mr W] lacks any insight into how his own behaviour has led to this. I think that [Mrs W] did attempt to draw a line in the sand, to move contact forward on an amicable basis in the early part of 2011, but that line was effectively kicked over by [Mr W's] behaviour on the occasion of his daughter's 8th birthday."
"[L] said that seeing dad again would make her happy. [L] reported that she would like to see her dad again at a contact centre to see if he keeps his word and stops drinking. [L] had previously expressed anxiety worry about her father or other people getting into the house and taking her or [S] however she said she no longer worries about that because her mother and [G] told her no one could get into the house. [L] said she would like father to stop drinking and smoking and her mother to stop smoking."
"I do not disagree with any of those observations, but I am not satisfied that Ms Bartlett has gone on to assess the extent to which supervision may be capable of protecting the children from that harm. Neither has she given consideration to the impact of [Mr W's] behaviour on [Mrs W]. [Mrs W], as the children's primary carer and source of attachment, plays an important role in underpinning and supporting their emotional development. Moreover the effect on her is first amongst the particular items the Court is enjoined to take account of as set out in para 27 of the President's Practice Direction."
"I have been particularly concerned to consider (three months on from my fact finding hearing) whether [Mr W] is able to satisfy me that the physical and emotional safety of [L], [S], and their mother with whom they live, can be secured in the event that direct contact is resumed."