"if the parents accept the outcome of these proceedings and if the father changes his attitude and stops behaving in the way I have described, contact, which is to be reviewed constantly, may well change. I should say that I have no criticism of the mother's behaviour at contact. I know [FX] wanted more contact, but it is a balance between the wishes of the child, the needs of the children and the behaviour of the parents. I would like the parents to consider that even between now and the end of the case and I will hear, if necessary, bullet points about the progress of contact and potential change in the father's attitude."
"... [The father's] behaviour in the course of contact is at times obsequious, at times wholly inappropriate and at times positively and openly undermining the children's placement with their foster carers. At times he can be loving and affectionate, he can be funny and entertaining, and in my judgment, if these children are not to see him it will be a great loss to them. However, comments such as that they will come home, that the parents will do everything to bring them back, deriding social workers, deriding foster carers and whispering in D's ear that her mother cries at home all the time, are wholly unacceptable. So is the behaviour of the father in respect of trying to obsequiously and surreptitiously in my judgment record contact on equipment which he purports to bring in for the children to play games on."
"I am less concerned about him recording the contact than about the comments he makes, but the combination of the two in my judgment is an indication to me that the father instead of having the welfare of his children at the forefront of his mind, has in the forefront of his mind his own interests and his own battles with the Local Authority. This, in my judgment, is not consistent with the children's welfare."
"Having seen the father's behaviour today and having read the contact notes and having what I consider to be a very good working knowledge of this case, it is with regret but without hesitation that I accede to the Local Authority's application for an order giving them permission to suspend contact if necessary. I am satisfied that they will not do so lightly but I am satisfied that the application is made for the correct motives."