"My client's position is this. That notwithstanding any of the allegations that she still generally believes are true that she would like the children to see their father in a controlled environment and if he is able to behave appropriately and have a father, child relationship with them she would wish contact to progress."
"She understands that that would mean drawing a line in the sand in respect of her allegations both the ones she has detailed in her statements to the court and those she has raised today in respect of dad's conduct towards the children specifically."
"She is very clear she wants the children to enjoy their relationship with their father."
"Your Honour, as I say, my client does understand that this will be drawing a line under her allegations. She is not withdrawing them in the sense that she does not accept they are fabricated and if I could say that does not strike us as a situation where this woman genuinely believes what she is saying. Whether that is objectively how events have occurred is a different matter and I know that it is a point that troubles my learned friend."
"UPON HEARING COUNSEL for each of the parties. AND UPON the Respondent Mother not seeking to pursue positive findings in respect of the allegations raised by her in the Scott Schedule and in the list here attached. It being noted by the court that the allegations made on the list were first made at Court today. AND UPON the Respondent Mother understanding that notwithstanding that fact that she is not withdrawing her allegations, she will not be able to put forward specific allegations as reason(s) for a bar against contact or future progression of contact between the children and the Applicant Father or in relation to residence and the Mother understanding that matters will proceed on the basis that [I think it should be] no negative findings have been made against the Father. AND UPON the Court recording that no findings of fact have been made against the Applicant Father and that the Applicant Father continues to deny all allegations made against him by the Respondent Mother. AND UPON the Court recording that as no allegations have been proved against the Applicant Father, no professional assessment of him should be on the basis of the concerns against him by the Mother in the Scott Schedule and list attached herewith, and any assessment should proceed on the basis of events as described by the Mother as having not occurred."
"There is a residence application as well so it would follow in relation to residence... I was about to write that in but I thought I had best not, not until I actually say to you that I think it should go there as well as an understanding."
"Your Honour, that is purely an oversight on my behalf."
"...I am glad that at least this part of the case has now been, as far as I am concerned, put to bed. There is a line in the sand and I am simply going to be considering this case on what is in the best interests of these children looking at the case moving forward from here. Which parent is going to be in the best position to offer long term care to these children and how it is best that the other parent has a good lasting and fulfilling relationship with their children. Okay? That is it in a nutshell. That is the only thing I am concerned about."
"12. I know it sounds dramatic but I would use the word tyrannical to describe [counsel’s] approach. I was very scared and I do not believe she gave me balanced advice. 13. [She] suggested that she should go and see what the judge had to say and I agreed. I recall she came back and indicated that the judge had said that she would have difficulty in making a positive or negative finding but that we could do things by way of recital. I think at that point that [she] was doing all that she could to dissuade me from testifying and although she did not say it I was left in no doubt she thought I was wasting the court's time. I felt bullied and I had lost all confidence."
"I am aware I am no longer allowed to bring these matters into the Children Proceedings, but can confirm I am still on the waiting list to see a counsellor from the Portsmouth Rape Crisis Team but I will not let the past, in respect of myself, have any weight to my views and the children's views of contact with their father."
"I am aware this cannot be brought up again in these proceedings."
"When the fact-finding hearing came up I had an alternative barrister, who advised me that the hearing would not achieve anything, as the Judge viewed the evidence and had said that even with testimony from all the parties involved, she would find it very difficult to make a decision either way. It was not made clear to me at the time that the fact finding hearing it was necessary for the facts of the case to go on record, whichever way the Judge ruled. I felt, and still feel that some elements are central to the case, and [father's] ability to parent (such as the fact that he abused me and raped me throughout our marriage, and that I was in fact under the age of consent when he first attacked me)"
"The difficulty that she has is that the case has moved on so much since that hearing. The purpose of a fact-finding hearing is to provide terra firma upon which the courts and the professionals called upon to advise them can operate. The ground needs to be firm as often it has been said but it also needs to be the same ground. I could see the argument for having the fact find in those circumstances a year and a half ago but now the geography has changed and the Court it seems to me is on some very firm ground indeed which is shared by all of those assessing the case apart from the Mother. "
"It seems to me that I would have to have a full hearing with evidence about what took place on25 August 2009 in the event that I was then convinced that the order as drafted was only agreed to by the Mother being bullied into it. I would then have to have a full-scale fact-finding hearing and that even if in fact there were findings made those would present now a very small part of a complex picture virtually all of the other components of which support the Father's rather than the Mother's case. In the meantime the children would be in limbo as is clear from the most recent report from [the social worker] in this case dated23 February 2011 ."
"The children are currently experiencing uncertainty and confusion and it is felt that the only way that this can be addressed is by the court making a final decision on the 27th of February 2012 with regards to where the children should reside for the remainder of their childhood. The Local Authority has significant concerns that any further delay will not be in the best interests of the children who need stability and finality. "
"...are so serious that they cannot be ignored. It is not serving the interests of justice or the children to decide residence without finding the facts. "
"...I regard this finding as important. It is important that the planning in the future of these children, particularly [another child], is based upon as correct a view of what happened to [the baby] as possible. It is not in the children's interests, or in the interests of justice, or in the interests of the two adults, for a finding to be based on an erroneous basis."