"The overall impression from P was that contact with her father gives her no sense of self-worth"
"There are recognised developmental changes in the children of separated parents who have experienced heavily conflicted residence and contact disputes. At the age of seven years there is evidence that children have loyalty conflicts and strong alignments with one parent may be less evident. When children move into middle childhood if the conflict continues alignments become more apparent and the child may be less concerned about hurting their parents. Hearing negative comments about a parent a child has invested their emotional security in is likely to strengthen a child's alignment to that parent. Children in this age group also begin to express their views with more authority and confidence."
"84. In those circumstances and for those reasons I propose to discharge the order of October 2006 and make no order for contact. 85. I do so with a very heavy heart but find some crumb of comfort in the thought that P will be more likely than not to make contact with her father in her own time and in her own way. Sadly it is likely to be surreptitious and behind her mother's back. "
"87. Increasingly I am coming to the view that there are some exceptional cases in which the Court can simply do no more. Every avenue has been tried and exhausted"
"I had a great weekend and cannot wait to see you soon. Take care Lots of love [P] "
"The father denies that the emails had been tampered with by him or were false or made up in order to support his case."