"After listening to mother and Mr [O] I became extremely concerned at their ability to cater in a sensitive way to a child's emotional needs."
"I suspect that sooner or later, and probably before too long, mother's views will force her to limit or cancel contact if the children were to reside with mother."
"Whilst [the grandparents] have experienced problems with the anti-social behaviour of their son, there is no evidence to suggest that they pose any direct risk to the children, and professionals agree that they have been meeting the children's needs appropriately."
"It is, of course, not enough for the wife to establish that this court might, or would, have made a different order. We are here concerned with a judicial discretion, and it is of the essence of such a discretion that on the same evidence two different minds might reach widely different decisions without either being appealable. It is only where the decision exceeds the generous ambit within which reasonable disagreement is possible, and is, in fact, plainly wrong, that an appellate body is entitled to interfere."
"There was not really a right solution: there were two alternative wrong solutions. The problem for the judge was to appreciate the factors pointing in each direction and to decide which of the two was the least dangerous having regard to the long term interests of the children, and so he decided the matter. Whether I would have decided it in the same way if I had been in the position of the trial judge I do not know. I might have taken the same course as the judge and I might not, but I was never in that situation. I am sitting in the Court of Appeal deciding a quite different question: has it been shown that the judge to whom Parliament has confided the exercise of discretion, plainly got the wrong answer? I emphasise the word 'plainly'. In spite of the efforts of [counsel] the answer to that question clearly must be that the judge has not been shown plainly to have got it wrong."