“In the circumstances of this case I feel that the children should be returned to their home in Nottingham, which is their usual base, to be with their father and to be returned to the school where they were originally, where they originally began their education.”
“As I say, I accept that evidence, and I accept that she has reformed in that area of her life.”
“Of course, a move to Nottingham would mean another change for the children. Children of this age are usually quite adaptable. They have only been living in Droitwich for some twelve months, and they would be returning to familiar territory and a familiar school. In those circumstances, I do not consider that such a change would cause them any significant harm.”
“There is no reason to unsettle that situation to put in place a situation that, to some extent, in terms of contact it leads to is very much unknown. A: Clearly I don’t agree with that view. There will be some disruption to the children in what I am recommending to the court. I feel that disruption will be minimal. The children will be returning to the area of the country where they have always been raised. They would be returning to the former family home where the father still lives. They would be returning to the school where they were previously educated. That does not seem to me to be a major upheaval for these children. It would be a minor change from what has existed for the past 12 months and the parents will have to work hard to minimise that disruption but it does not seem to me to be a significant factor.”
“As far as the children’s wishes and feelings were concerned, … the children were initially unsettled after their move from Nottingham at the end of last year. They would inevitably have missed their friends their and their school. However, they are now well settled in Droitwich, and their school reports from the local school are good. In any event, at their ages, the children’s wishes and feelings would carry limited weight.”
“I have no doubt at all (and I am happy to record this) that both parents love and cherish the children. Both parents want the very best for the children, and they are acting with that incentive in mind. Both parents, Mr Webb tells me and I accept without reservation, are capable of caring for the children more than adequately. Mr Webb says: ‘The children will be well looked-after, and be safe, and will thrive in either household.’ I agree with that observation.”
“Balancing all of those factors, I too find this a difficult and finely balanced case. However, having given some considerable thought to the matter (but not without considerable hesitation I have to say), I prefer father’s argument, supported by Mr Webb, to those advanced on behalf of the mother. I conclude that it is overall in the children’s best interests to return to Nottingham, subject to arrangements being made for generous time spent with the mother in Droitwich, if it is Droitwich where she intends to remain.”