“Did you consider, in 2007, that you were cohabiting? A. No, not at all. Q. How did you view the future of your relationship with Liam when you were giving instructions for this letter to be written? A. No different than it is now. Q. Which is what? A. Which is every third day, every second weekend or whenever. Just a companionship basis.”
“Q. What was different about January? A. It was coming up to my – well, this divorce hearing and I needed extra – I needed a little bit of extra company, somebody who wasn’t involved with the proceedings. I had constant streams of faxes from Manches. I was very worried and upset about these four days that were coming up and he was just being very supportive and I’m glad for that. It’s just me and my daughter. When she goes to bed, me on my own, looking at four walls. So, yes, he was definitely there for quite a bit of time but that’s not the norm. Q. Have you had any discussions with Mr Thompson about him moving in permanently? A. No, never. Q. Is that what you would like? A. No, not at all. Q. And why is that? A. I am in no way mentally or emotionally ready for any man to move into my home, especially with me and my daughter at the moment. Definitely not, no. ”
“Q. Liam, I think you told my Lord he is in charge of programmes on radio stations; is that right? A. Yes, he runs radio stations. Q. Yes. Quite a big group, is it not? A. I don’t know the size of it. Q. It runs 42 radio stations, across Europe? A. I know it runs quite a lot but I don’t know the amount. Q. And he is the group programme director, is that right? A. He is, yes.”
“70. Once more the truth concerning this is confounded behind W’s reluctant, unsatisfactory and (I am satisfied) partial presentation. She and L appear to have been in relationship since about the end of 2006 at the latest. Until shortly before the hearing she was coy in her responses to enquiry, when indeed she deigned to deal with them. Confronted by H with enquiry agent evidence and details of the observations made by her father-in-law (for H’s parents live just three doors away from her home in Dublin) she was constrained to admit that L had spent most of his January leisure hours and nights at her home. Not until cross-examination did she reveal that she was 17 weeks pregnant by him. 71. Her suggestion that she had not thought to mention that because she thought it insignificant in these proceedings is not credible. Disclosed her pregnancy clearly should have been. But its relevance and effect must be considered dispassionately. L was not free to marry her, were that their intention, although one assumes that that impediment could in time be removed. There was no evidence to suggest that he made any effective or material contribution to her living expenditure on any sustained basis. Their expected child is likely to increase their mutual dependence, but will not inevitably do so. They may or may not cohabit – an unsatisfactory word and concept, in my long-held view, vague as to quality and duration and not a reliably valid indicator of anything long-term. The helpful decision of HHJ Tyrer in Kimber v Kimber[2001] 1 FLR 383 contains a useful check-list of potentially relevant considerations, but there can be no cut-and-dried test: in a number of situations reliance on the opinion of more than one ‘reasonable person(s) with normal perceptions’ could lead to different conclusions. 72. The presence of L on W’s scene, and indeed the presence of their child, do not in my opinion affect at all the quantum of capital provision with which W should exit this marriage, any more than did the presence of Mr Black affect Mrs Duxbury’s entitlement: see[1992] Fam 62 n,[1987] 1 FLR 7 , CA. 73. As to income provision (for this is not in my opinion a clean break case), I was invited to view the authorities. They are really all one way until one gets to Coleridge J’s first instance decision in K v K (periodical payments: cohabitation)[2005] EWHC 2886 (Fam) ,[2006] 2 FLR 468 , were he potently puts the case for a revised approach, praying in aid the undoubted changes in public perception of cohabitation as ‘normal, commonplace and acceptable as marriage’. In that case the former wife had for three years lived in settled cohabitation with her partner and they had been fully involved in each other’s financial affairs. That is by no means this case, and it is to be observed that the outcome arrived at by Coleridge J nevertheless would have continued the husband’s (albeit reduced) liability for maintenance provision but for an order capitalising it in a sum representing more than 8 years’ purchase at the reduced rate. 74. But however much I may feel sympathetically attracted by Coleridge J’s philosophy, it must be the line of authority in the Court of Appeal rather than his (viewed in their light) heretical observations which I am constrained to follow. Change in this area must come from Parliament, or from a court with authority to make new law or to change the old. The Court of Appeal in Atkinson v Atkinson[1988] Fam 93 and Fleming v Fleming [2003] EWCA Cov 841.[2004] 1 FLR 667 has consistently held the orthodox line. Thorpe LJ reaffirmed the principle at [9] and [10] of Fleming thus, in response to the former husband’s submission that the increasing tendency of couples to cohabit rather than to marry justified a more rigorous approach to cases involving applicants who are in stable, long-term, quasi-marital relationships: ‘[9] Nor do I think that the decision of this court in Atkinson v Atkinson calls for revisitation in the light of whatever social changes there may have been over the course of the last 15 years of so. The judgment of Waterhouse J on the point of principle is broadly expressed. His conclusion that cohabitation is not to be equated with marriage remains as sound today as it was then. Equally it seems to me that the direction that the court, in assessing the impact of cohabitation, should have regard to the overall circumstances, including financial consequences, remains the proper course to be followed. Of course, in a case such as this, where the length of cohabitation is now greater than many a marriage that comes before a court for assessment, the range of discretion given to the judge enables him or her to place considerable weight on that circumstance. There is no indication that His Honour Judge Michael Taylor did not regard the continuing cohabitation as other than a central feature of the case. [10] The statutory distinction between remarriage, which terminates financial obligation (by virtue ofs28 of the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973 ), and cohabitation, which does not, would fall for Parliamentary consideration if the Government’s present plans to legislate rights and responsibilities for same-set partners were extended to cohabitees.’ That was a case of over five years of settled and uninterrupted relationship. Making every possible allowance for lack of candour or even downright dishonesty on the part of W, her relationship with LJ is some way off from that. ” ‘[9] Nor do I think that the decision of this court in Atkinson v Atkinson calls for revisitation in the light of whatever social changes there may have been over the course of the last 15 years of so. The judgment of Waterhouse J on the point of principle is broadly expressed. His conclusion that cohabitation is not to be equated with marriage remains as sound today as it was then. Equally it seems to me that the direction that the court, in assessing the impact of cohabitation, should have regard to the overall circumstances, including financial consequences, remains the proper course to be followed. Of course, in a case such as this, where the length of cohabitation is now greater than many a marriage that comes before a court for assessment, the range of discretion given to the judge enables him or her to place considerable weight on that circumstance. There is no indication that His Honour Judge Michael Taylor did not regard the continuing cohabitation as other than a central feature of the case. [10] The statutory distinction between remarriage, which terminates financial obligation (by virtue ofs28 of the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973 ), and cohabitation, which does not, would fall for Parliamentary consideration if the Government’s present plans to legislate rights and responsibilities for same-set partners were extended to cohabitees.’ That was a case of over five years of settled and uninterrupted relationship. Making every possible allowance for lack of candour or even downright dishonesty on the part of W, her relationship with LJ is some way off from that. ”
“They may or may not cohabit – an unsatisfactory word and concept in my long-held view, vague as to quality and duration and not a reliably valid indicator of anything long term.”
“…the marriage (which should probably include periods of pre marital cohabitation and engagement).”
“If cohabitation equates with marriage in the context of an assessment of ‘contribution’ why should it not also, in a decision about the continuation of a periodical payments order? It is quite simply unfair to the husband to ignore the cohabitation of the wife and Mr B.”
“[87] This is a troubling and messy area of law and the current legislation enacted against an utterly different social fabric is not adequate to deal with it. The question is how far can the court go to redress the inadequacies of this somewhat superannuated legislation by applying it now in the contemporary context. Obviously, the impact of cohabitation can affect, potentially, both quantum and duration of an ongoing order. [88] I do not shrink from saying that, in my judgment, nowadays the man on the Clapham omnibus (perhaps more likely now to be found on the crowded underground train) regards it as wholly anomalous and unfair for a cohabiting ex-wife in the circumstances of this wife to continue to receive income provision from a former husband indefinitely, perhaps for the rest of her life or until she chooses to remarry. If cohabitation is to be a social norm surely financial independence from a previous partner, whether married or not must go with it? [89] However, on the other hand, if a wife in this wife’s position has generated an entitlement to ongoing income provision is she not entitled, even cynically, to avoid the consequences of its cessation by refusing to take the step of remarriage whatever her emotional and financial commitment to her new partner? That is the clash of principle to which I refer earlier. [90] Can the court resolve that clash and should it make some kind of judgment about the wife’s choice? I tend to the view that the court cannot shrug off the point by saying it is a matter for Parliament. It is too important and too commonplace in these cases, especially ‘variation’ cases. There is no sign whatever that Parliament is proposing in the foreseeable future to confront the need for a thorough reconsideration of the principles underlying this area of the law. The opportunity afforded by the drafting of the recentCivil Partnership Act 2004 has been missed. There is no prospect of statutory change within 5 years and this issue will not go away. [91] So I suggest that the court must nowadays grapple with this point and factor into its analysis and calculations not only numerically but in principle the existence of a lengthy and settled period of cohabitation and the likelihood of its continuing indefinitely. To confine its consideration to the arithmetic only is judicial fudge, mixing principle with practicality and producing potential unfairness and enhanced forensic uncertainty. [92] Why because one cohabiting partner is prepared voluntarily and generously to support the ex-spouse is he or she to be discriminated against by reduction in an existing order when another partner in identical financial circumstances chooses/refuses to do so and therefore the payee ex spouse retains the full advantage of the existing order? There must be consistency of treatment so that couples can understand the financial implications of cohabitation and their lawyers can advise them. [93] Apart from these ‘cohabitation’ factors, the other important check in this analysis is to be very careful to avoid allowing the wife ‘a second bite at the cherry’. I have already indicated that on the documentation and the evidence I have seen the original order was proper and fair. There is never any warrant for trying to re-write a past injustice or look again broadly at the relative wealth of the two previous spouses in the context of applications of this kind for variation/capitalising periodical payment claims. It is a more narrowly confined exercise.”
“11. If it be the case that pre-marriage cohabitation is to be equated to marriage, there is no obvious logic in post-separation cohabitation attracting different treatment. We referred in our first skeleton (para 28) to the danger that is courted of a wife achieving double recovery in respect of the same period from H1 and H2, if the question of ongoing periodical payments during a period of post-separation cohabitation is not adequately policed. Further, the obvious unattractiveness of a wife receiving maintenance from her former husband while living with another man in a new relationship was pointed out by Wood J in the passages cited above. However, there are 2 legal points that must be confronted here: (a)First, Matrimonial Causes Act 1973, section 28 (2) does not apply to cohabitation. Thus, absent legislation, there can be no formal automatic termination of periodical payments. This can only be addressed by the terms of a court order, whether original or on a variation application. (b) Secondly, at present, the status of cohabitation does not ordinarily lead to a financial claim against the partner. Thus the breakdown of the new relationship may lead to financial hardship for the dependent ex-spouse, if she is unable to be self-sufficient. This would particularly be of concern if that spouse was continuing to care for the minor children of the marriage. Nevertheless it is important that this dynamic area of the law should not be out of touch with generally accepted notions of fairness. 12. The solution to this issue is, we suggest, as follows: (a) If settled cohabitation be established then, as a matter of ordinary practice, that ought to lead to no substantive maintenance order being made; or if it be a variation application the previous periodical payments being abrogated. (b) Secondly, in a case where the court has continuing concern as to the dependant’s ability to be or become self-sufficient and has no obvious recourse against the cohabitant, then a nominal order should be made.”
“Now that it is established that pre-marital cohabitation normally does count as part of the duration of the marriage… it may be that post-divorce/dissolution cohabitation will be treated likewise.”
“The court, in so far as its own orders are concerned, has an almost unrestricted power to vary them retrospectively and, moreover, to backdate any variation which it makes in a pre-existing order beyond the date of the application for variation”