“Such an order and such a label reaffirms the continuing major equal role this mother must play in the lives of all three children when they reside in her household during the periods defined in the order.”
“Equally important however is the fact that such an order will not radically change the label used to define the relation between Leyton and Kiera and their mother. This will reflect the reality of the future arrangements, spending a substantial period of time in the mother’s household every fortnight during both the school term time and the school holiday. It will also respect both children’s wishes and feelings and ensure all three children will be with the same parents at the same time..." Now the reference to the children’s wishes and feelings takes me back to an earlier paragraph of the judgment, 16, in which the judge had recorded: “CAFCASSS has ascertained that the children have the following wishes and feelings. Casey wants to see more of his mother. Leyton wants to spend equal time with both parents and cannot decide with whom he wants to live. Kiera’s definite wish is to remain living with her mother but wants to spend time with her father. I think in this case these collective wishes and feelings are a matter of considerable weight especially in the case of Kiera, despite her age, and because of her sex as the mother’s second daughter.”