“Children with ADHD benefit from clear boundaries and structure and struggle with changes in routine. However, I would suggest that any child would have difficulty coping with an absent father who suddenly makes contact after 11 years. Given that D is not aware that his stepfather is not his biological father, the news would have a massive impact on him and would certainly result in a deterioration in his behaviour and also his performance at school.”
“I was not inclined to ask Dr Ellis about her views on this matter. Dr Ellis and her colleagues have provided valuable support to D and his family over a number of years and I do not wish to risk compromising this relationship.”