“1. The mother accepts sexual abuse occurred in the household and the children are telling the truth. She further admits she failed to protect them. It does not seem to me that my view, having heard days of evidence (perhaps to the detriment of any vestige of any relationships remaining in the family), will inform therapists who can view the videos for themselves and reach their own conclusions and may take the case on a worst scenario basis if they feel it appropriate to do so. 2. This aspect is only one aspect of the allegations against the mother and threshold under s.31 of the Children Act can be reached in numerous other ways. 3. I am only to have the benefit of hearing [B] and not any of the other three children. A difficulty in this case is how the allegations against [A] came to light, namely that the mother was deputed to speak to the children first and when she reported what they said, the social worker or police took over. It is a fact that [E] says what happened to him, being required to touch [A’s] penis, occurred when he was two. When the police officer said it was five years ago, [E] adopted that. 4. Neither [B] nor [A] are to be a part of the mother’s household in the future, whether or not the three younger children are, and detailed findings in respect of them do not seem to me what is required. The mother can develop skills of how to protect children in her care assuming the worst case scenario. The three younger children can be given instruction in how to keep themselves safe and meaningful sexual education without the need for findings in their cases. 5. There may be criminal proceedings and this case should not provide [B] or [A] with a forum for a dress rehearsal. Should the police bring proceedings, a jury will decide the veracity of [B’s] evidence to the appropriate standard. In my view, it is not the role of this court and based on these facts to carry out such a limited fact-finding exercise at this stage.”
“I mean I heard you say the other day that it is for me to make the findings and not Vista. But … Vista might look at my judgment and think ‘well, we have talked to the mother and we cannot see … how … the judge [reached] that conclusion.’ The judge is not the jury, you know.”
“The local authority shall be prohibited from seeking within these proceedings to establish any findings of sexual abuse against the intervener; it being considered by the court in all the circumstances of this case to be unnecessary, inappropriate and disproportionate.”
“I do not underestimate the difficulty of deciding where the truth lies but that is what the courts are for.”
“Findings are, therefore, required from the court with regard to the various allegations and this should enable the social services department to form appropriate care plans for the children in the context of the conclusions of this assessment.”
“In our view it is less about whether or not there are findings in respect of [A]. What we would hope to draw the professionals’ attention to is the lack of clarity and the uncertainty around profoundly disturbing allegations of sexual abuse of children and rape between adults. It is essential that for professionals working with this family to be able to position themselves reasonably regarding these issues in order to make the appropriate interventions for the children. In effect the professionals working with these children are unable to effectively plan and move forward with this family without such findings.”