“However, what is at the heart of this is clearly the provision that when under the influence of drink the Respondent Mrs N acts in such a way in relation to the children in this sense and over bearing is hardly the right word really, over affectionate, over demonstrative and over anxious and possibly over assertive. She acts in that way it is said in relation to the children and they, not surprisingly, find that upsetting. “5. The fact that that situation exists does not mean that she does not love the children; that is not the position at all. It is perfectly plain that on occasions, certainly in relation to matters that I am concerned with, the children have voluntarily approached her. The real trouble is that when they get close they are then within range of over effusive affection she is minded to show towards them and, although they may start willingly, it does not surprise me at all to hear suggestions that the incidents finish in an upsetting way as far as the children are concerned.”
“That is perhaps understandable and her appreciation of the situation is no doubt affected by the fact that she was addicted to drink.”