“I think there is an argument for saying some contact could take place during summer holidays when J does not have the pressure of the school routine.”
“I think J’s seeing her father as part of the grandparents’ contact for half an hour at a place she enjoys going with them has some merit.”
“… optimal for her to be settled at school when direct contact first takes place but this may not occur for some time. In the short term, dovetailing contact in with the grandparental contact offers many benefits.”
“I am not going to hear evidence today; I have another case to hear. This is a holding operation. I have read Dr Blincow’s reports, of course, and they will receive close scrutiny in September. If this were a case of frequent contact, things would be altogether different, but it is not. And I am going to order this modest contact. So there we are.”
“It is felt quite strongly by both the teacher and TA [the teacher’s assistants] that there is a correlation between J’s anxiety levels and the extreme behaviour she displays, and that she did become anxious when contact with her father, A was planned. Whilst we are not in any way against the proposed contact, as we recognise the benefits of children having contact with both parents, we ask that it is recognised that J’s emotional and behavioural difficulties mean any new experience has to be managed very carefully. Due to her difficulties, J is yet to attend school full time and is unlikely to be able to manage full days until at least September. It gives me some concern, then, that I understand contact is proposed for July. I would wish for J to be secure in school before any further changes were introduced. I understand the father’s desire for contact with his daughter, but if contact is to be successful, I would suggest, it needs to be carefully timed for a period when J is more emotionally secure.”
“… the contact I ordered is very modest and if in the result the first contact goes badly, then there would be no second contact before the main hearing. That was made plain at the last hearing on 31 May. I am satisfied that the welfare of this little girl will not be placed in jeopardy by the order standing. It is modest contact and February 2006 is a long time ago, no contact, and the months go by without J having contact with her father. So I am not going to allow any alteration in the order I made on 31 May. That order stands.”