“I am writing on behalf of my patient, Howard Thacker. Mr Thacker is experiencing attacks of extreme anxiety and depressed moods stemming from an adjustment disorder from his mother’s death. Furthermore, he is having severe troubles with insomnia causing him to have extreme fatigue and irritability. He is not well enough at this time, to travel or to spend extended periods in stressful situations. We are personally working on techniques and medication therapy to adjust his mood and improve his overwhelming condition.”
“Mr Thacker finally collapsed yesterday with an apparent mental breakdown caused by extreme anxiety brought on by his mother’s death, financial pressure, bankruptcy and the continual pressure for yourselves in the current proceedings, he is currently unable to focus or perform work, travel or experience further stress. Clearly and on the strict advice of his locally eminent doctor he unfortunately and most regrettably will be unable to attend the hearing next week. He needs a period of rest and treatment to regain his health and faculties.”
“be at liberty to provide such statements and documents in discharge of his duty of full and frank disclosure as he may elect.”
“I am not with Mr Thacker at this time and am unaware of his travelling arrangements … I will revert when I have had an opportunity to answer the question fully.”
“His personal wealth is limited (and having been married twice the structure in place does provide protection).”
“a candid oral explanation of his offshore connected wealth of£16 million although [he] made clear he has no direct entitlement to either capital or income from these funds.” (c) A report of a meeting with Mr Thacker in March 2006 noted that the husband: “is claiming he has minimal assets as all proceeds from the sale of uDate went into the Jersey Trust. For this reason he is painting as black a picture as possible regarding his personal financial position - hence the pressure on all accounts within the connection. This is tactical!” (d) A note in February 2007 was as follows: “Client is going through a divorce at the present time and has been advised by solicitor to keep an account overdrawn as otherwise this may affect his settlement.” (e) Later in February 2007, by e-mail, Mr Thacker stated to the bank: “I understand, Peter, and clearly I am in the ‘wrong’. I just get frustrated when you know and I know ‘I’ have assets over£10 million and cannot get any ‘liquid’ quickly enough.”
“What then, at the end of my assessment, is the fair outcome? The yardstick of equality is plainly, in my judgment, quite inappropriate. [Leading counsel for Mrs Thacker] never suggested it was, and rightly so. The next question which can be fairly and legitimately posed is this: why is£2 million which the wife seeks unfair? The husband was challenged in the wife’s letter of16 May 2006 to demonstrate why£2 million was unaffordable and unfair and unjust. It must be remembered that even in this Division it is for the wife to establish her case, and not for the husband to disprove it. However, in the particular circumstances of this case it was a legitimate tactic to employ, particularly in the light of the husband’s woeful disclosure and obfuscation.”