“I have to consider the mother’s plans. She has not been able to go back to Texas to lay clear plans. She does not intend to go to Texas until after the English school term has ceased which will be at the end of July and she does not intend to go until towards the end of the English school summer holidays. In that sense she has time to finalise the real detail, the finer parts of where the children are going to live, which school they are going to go to, how she may be able to earn a living and the finances generally and be able to give proper detail.”
“She has been criticised for not giving the finer details. I am not so critical because I find that she is resourceful and she puts the children first and she will ensure that there is a proper home with proper schooling and that she will provide finances for them and for herself.”
“The mother has filed a statement from her current boyfriend. He is not able to consider moving until 3 and a half years from now because of his contract with the RAF. Even then he would have to consider the advantages of remaining in the RAF.”
“She has now formed a new relationship with a gentleman in the RAF who has another three years to serve. He is British. He has two children. They propose to marry here if they stay here; marry in Texas if the children can go. The plan, ultimately, is to make their lives together. Her fiancé says he will follow her to Texas as and when he can be released or his contract ceased with the Air Force. It is not intended that he would go immediately because he has to be released, but the current plan is that he will join the mother if she is given leave as soon as possible.”
“The mother says ‘I will be very upset if I have to stay here. I want to go home. I will be happier there. I think I can make a good home for my children there’. “The CAFCASS officer also said that in being upset it would take a bit of time for the mother to settle down, to adjust to stay here. That would take time. If you have an unhappy primary carer, in this case a mother, it impacts upon children. An unhappy mother often means an unhappy child. I have to consider what is right for the children. I have to ask myself what is best for them bearing in mind that there are several thousand miles between two homes, the travel, the cost of travel and the loss of the regular weekend contact that the children are enjoying with their father and their grandparents. I formed a clear view. The mother has made reasonable and proper plans. She has considered when she can go. She is going to her homeland which she knows and only left six years ago. She wants to go home and feel more at home.”