“In considering all the evidence I have, at all times, had in mind the first and foremost. I have to decide whether there are any compelling factors that override the prima facie right of the child to an upbringing by the natural parent, in this case, the father. As I have already said, mother does not seek to have the child returned to her and furthermore that any intervention in the family life of a child and parent must be proportionate to the risk and harm to the child. In other words, the risk of harm must be so high that the child’s welfare requires alternative care.”
“Therefore I focus on what father, supported by SH, can provide for S and how capable they are of meeting her needs. I say immediately that I am totally convinced of father’s genuine wish to care for this little girl and that he sincerely believes that that is in the best interests of her welfare. I also say immediately that I find that SH is similarly motivated and that she is a caring young woman, content and indeed relishing maternal roles.”
“I also want to consider the relationship of the father and SH. I accept, at present, that they are committed to each other. I do not doubt their current intentions and I hope that it does work out for them, both for their sakes and for the sakes of the children.”
“It is quite clear that SH has a structured regime for the children where she ensures that there is individual time for each of the children, particularly at bedtime, and that she does not think that having the addition of S would be too much for her.”
“Now I recognise the fact that it has been urged that KB’s contact with S could be controlled and dealt with by way of court orders, but, as anyone who sits in my position knows, it is not as simple as that. One can make orders, it is true, but it would be involving S in a conflictual situation and impose stress on whoever is caring for her.”