“He shook my baby, my baby’s dead.”
“At the start of the local authority’s protective measures, immediately after30 July 2006 , C was likely to suffer significant emotional and physical harm by exposure to the repetition of the incidence which are proved to have occurred on 30 July and at the end of April. The repetition of these incidents is likely because the father lacks the parenting skill necessary to deal with a crying child and the couple minimised the incidents and rejected voluntary help with the issues of parenting and domestic violence.”
“On 30 July it is common ground that these were inexperienced new parents. Father could not cope with a crying baby. He found that he could not console the baby and it would seem that his frustration in his attempts to console the crying baby left him crying himself, according to the mother. From time to time he went out on these occasions in order to calm himself.”
“The only evidence against the father is what the mother has said. She has made the allegation and then withdrawn it in the circumstances that I have analysed. Overall, it is quite impossible for that evidence to prove the allegation of this seriousness against the father.”
“The mother took the child from the father and called the father a bastard. The father reacted, he kicked the child’s bottle. He hit the mother, using the fingers of a clenched fist. He threw a vase over her shoulder at a cupboard, where it broke. He struck her on the back and on the back of the head and went to restrain her. That summary is largely accepted the father has, on13 October 2006 , pleaded guilty to common assault.”
“I remind myself that there is evidence of only two episodes, this is not a case of a long history to be extracted from the police and medical records. It is also the case that the mother did complain to the authorities, through the agency of her sister, of what happened on the 30 July. But in my judgment the 30 July was a serious child related incident - the father could not cope with a crying child. He shouted and swore at the baby which directly triggered an episode of domestic violence. The couple then rejected voluntary help that was designed to avoid repetition. They not only rejected the help but minimised the episode itself - not accepting that there was a problem, let alone accepting help towards a solution. So my conclusion is that there was a real possibility of the repetition of incidents of that kind and incidents of that kind, in my judgment, carry with them the real possibility of significant emotional and physical harm.”