“Mrs Abdullah is not looking for a social life of a visiting nature which is what the reviewing officer seems to be talking about but contact of a day to day physical nature to help with every day problems of the kind which, because of the mental physical and family pressure she has got, are difficult for her to cope with without everyday support.”
“The judge took the view that the only real point on the appeal was the question as to whether I had failed to have regard to the fact that your client had moved to Westminster from Barnet because of support available to her here from family and friends in Westminster to assist her in raising her children and coping with the daily demands of ordinary living.”
“I note that your client chose to move to Westminster by her own undertaking because she had suffered harassment in the Barnet area. She found her own accommodation in Westminster by her own resourcefulness and Barnet merely assisted her in securing that accommodation with a rent deposit.”
“Mrs Abdullah has relations living in the Borough of Westminster and I believe it would be better for the welfare of her and her children if she could transfer there.”
“We have no objections whatsoever. You can get good accommodation for them. This is most welcome.”
“Spoke to Siho Mpfu, social worker. Mrs Abdullah has been pressing her to write a letter in support of her review. However, social services do not support her view. They claim the accommodation in Barking is suitable and Mrs Abdullah does not have friends or family in [Westminster City Council] or any other strong connections. Social services have arranged for supported placement in Battersea for Mrs Abdullah’s son, Nabil, not on application.”
“I have also considered that, although the medical information on file says that it is advantageous for her to have support from her family and friends, it does not suggest in any way that she cannot cope without it.”
“She is finding it very difficult to cope with his [that is her son’s] behaviour and finds a lack of support in this area. She has family in Westminster and she would welcome a transfer to this area where she would have adequate family support to deal with her son’s, Nabil’s, behaviour. Because of the current mental state of Mrs Abdullah, which is very near to a nervous breakdown, I would be very grateful if you could give certain consideration to rehousing this family within the Westminster area as soon as possible.”
“During the time I have been visiting her she has been emotionally very labile and dependent on the support of her family to cope with everyday activities.”
“I would strongly support the placement of this lady and her children to a locality that allows her family to continue to be significantly involved in visiting, or the care of, her children, thus(?) ensuring mother’s mental health stability.”
“She has several problems with her children, especially the eldest, and they have a social worker involved. She needs a lot of local support from friends and family. Unfortunately, this lady does not speak any English and all her friends and relatives live around Westminster area. She does need their help to bring up her children with less stress. She is also awaiting several appointments at St Mary’s hospital.”
“In addition to the physical problems with the property, Mrs Abdullah is finding it extremely difficult to cope when she is so isolated from her family and friends who have formally acted as her support network. She has found it very difficult to make social contact in this area where there is no significant Arab speaking community and where, in any case, she finds it very difficult to make her way around in unfamiliar territory due to her physical disability.”
“Having visited this woman, having talked to her children, I am really concerned about her situation and hope you will urgently consider her request for accommodation in the Westminster area where she has family who can support her and assist her with caring for the children, and therefore kindly ask you for your urgent consideration in this family’s case so as to avoid any further distress, especially to the children.”