“It could be said that it would be best to go along with [J’s] expressed wish, as he will continue to display disruptive behaviour should he remain with his mother. It could also be said, however, that to concede to [J’s] wishes would give him the message that he can achieve what he wants by behaving in a negative manner.”
“I advise that until the parents are able to stop trying to prove that they are right and the other parent is wrong, they will also continue to knowingly cause damage to the children.”
“… the range of powers available to the court under this Act in the proceedings in question. The only question I am really considering -- it crossed my mind whether there should be a joint residence order but that has not been argued or put before the court at this stage. All I am being asked is whether or not the residence of [J] should be changed.”
“I have come to the conclusion in this difficult case, having seen and heard the parties, that it would not be in [J’s] interest to vary the existing residence order. I have come to that conclusion because, firstly, I consider there is nothing untoward in the mother’s care. Secondly, it would be wrong to separate him from his brother. Thirdly, I think it would enable him to exploit the situation, if that were the case.”