“The father has sensibly taken the view that this is not yet the time when there should be direct contact. He appreciates that, as he has not seen the child since the early part of 2002, there will have to be a measured approach to direct contact. All he is really asking for today is that the indirect contact should continue. I say in parenthesis that there is no problem about that on the mother’s side. But he asking that the CAFCASS officer, Diane Clark, should have a full and proper opportunity to see the child and to discuss matters.”
“If we reached the position that Diane Clark says yes, there should be direct contact, and that seems to be the wish of the child, but the mother says in effect ‘I will not allow it to happen’ then inevitably, the court is on a collision course with the mother, which must either lead to the court backing down at some later stage, or sending the mother to prison. There really is no other way out of the situation and one hesitates long and hard before creating a situation where that may happen.”
“Whatever the difficulties, however scant the prospects of success, the courts must not relent in pursuit of the restoration of what had been a natural relationship between father and daughter, absent compelling evidence that the welfare of the child requires respite.”
“Those factors have in my view undoubtedly led to a delay in terms of Diane Clark being able to see the child. […] I am sure that the mother has used her circumstances to put back meetings with Diane Clark and she could have taken a more constructive and more pro-active role in getting those meetings underway.”