“I deal with the aspect first of all, the wishes and feelings of the children, taking into account their varying ages going from nearly 14 going down to 3. […] The guardian’s report recites the conversations she has had with the children about their wishes and feelings regarding their mother and insofar as possible, about the effect of adoption. Those conversations are recited in the first report, they are also referred to in the submissions and positions statements of the mother and the guardian. “In evidence the guardian was questioned about these expressed feelings and described them as having come from the heart and that the children expressed strong feelings for the mother.”