"The parties were acquainted before their relationship started in 1997. Two weeks into their relationship [the father] moved into [the mother's] home, which she shared with her daughter, [A], who was then two years old. The relationship started to unravel in 2000, when arguments and aggression took place. [The father's] employment as a long distance lorry driver required him to spend long periods away during the week ..... plans were being made to bring the relationship to an end [at the end of 1999]. [The mother] then became pregnant with [C], who was born on Christmas Day [1999]. The father was present at the hospital when she was born ..... The relationship between the parents again deteriorated [soon after the birth] ..... The relationship ended after [an incident of violence] ..... [the father] left the home on9 March 2003 ..... ..... He [went] to live with the paternal grandmother. He is usually away during the week, due to his employment."
" ..... if there is no improvement, then [the mother] needs to be aware that a re-arrangement of residence in respect of [C] may need to be considered. [C's] contact with her father has been intermittent and this cannot be in her best interests. Contact needs to be consistent as periods of no contact cause confusion for the child and frustration for the parents."
"In order to safeguard [C's] relationship with her father, it is necessary to make a Reasonable Contact Order in his favour, which would incorporate the current arrangements for weekend contact and also any other contact during school holidays."
"With Court Direction [the mother] has brought [C] to the office twice out of three times that an invitation was offered. During these two contacts [C] has shown no reluctance to go to her father and they seem to drop back into what, presumably, was the previous comfortable companionship. It was only when mother became angry and upset that the child cried. During the first session she was reduced to tears and asked to go to grandfather who I suspect is a significant person in her life. Due to mother's change of mood, the second session went well, even though there was clearly an 'atmosphere' between the parties. [C] needed her mother's permission and encouragement to go to her father. When this is not forthcoming she takes her mother's lead and backs off from the meeting. [The mother] seems to be very inconsistent. She missed one contact out of three. This seems to reflect the pattern of past contact in that there has been no routine or pattern. Equally in her comments she is not consistent. While she says that she feels [C] should see her father she does not actively promote it. Such mixed messages will give problems to a young child."
"[C] is very close to her mother and to her maternal grandparents. She also seems to have a good relationship with her father and his family. Ideally she would have the benefit of both. It seems that mother's uncertainty transmitted to [C] may be preventing the contact with which in theory mother approves of. In the past, although contact has been ordered and the order has been reinforced there has been little success in establishing a regular pattern. A penal notice attached to an order would be a consideration and would emphasise the authority of the courts."
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