“Thankfully, albeit belatedly, she has now changed her approach; the mother attended at the hearing, she was represented, she filed a statement setting out her position and she is cooperating with the court proceedings. Had she done this on 20th April or at the subsequent two hearings, it might have been possible to avoid the need for this hearing and this application.”
“I don’t find that the mother is now openly defiant of the court. If I felt she was deliberately flouting the orders of the court and was fully able to exercise control and to facilitate contact if she chose, I would give serious consideration to a committal order so as to enforce a respect for court orders and also to coerce her into compliance. However it seems to me that in this case a committal order would not bring about compliance but rather would damage, perhaps irreversibly, the relationship between A and the father.”
“The mother did not present as aggressive or antagonistic, she was not challenging the court. I find she is unable to encourage A sufficiently so as to persuade him to go to contact; that is [the guardian’s] view as well. It is not a new problem of course, it is referred to by Miss Pecherek [that is the consultant psychologist] in her report [in 2005]. The mother presented in court as rather flat and resigned. She felt that to tell A that, if he didn’t go to contact, then she would go to prison would amount to emotional blackmail. I believe she was genuinely distressed at that point in her evidence, I am satisfied that she was looking at the prospect from A’s point of view. [The guardian] is also of the opinion, that, even if A went under such compulsion, it is hardly a recipe for good quality contact or for the development of a healthy relationship with the father.”
“The court should not impose a suspended sentence of imprisonment unless it is prepared to follow it through with an immediate custodial sentence in the event of a breach of the terms of suspension. A prison sentence for the mother would, in my view, make the situation worse not better. But what can be done to improve the situation? How can the mother be empowered to ensure that A enjoys contact with his father? [The guardian] seems, as I’ve said, to be at something of a loss and has not so far been able to provide the court with assistance as to the future. [The guardian] is convinced that A truly wishes to see his father. If that is the case it has to be said that A in his present pronouncements is making a good job of masking it. I am clear then that this is not a case for a committal order. It is not justified or appropriate at this time. However, the case simply cannot be left there, as I made clear to the mother. As I told her, the issue will not go away and it seems to me that a major effort is required from everyone involved in this case to be administered and overseen by the court.”