"... I feel, having heard all the evidence, that the proceedings should conclude today because a period of respite all round would be to the advantage of everyone and particularly to [R] because he will feel that there is now no pressure on him to do anything in particular. There is no coercion, there is no likelihood of a Judge or anyone else telling him to do that which he says he is not prepared to do, because I have no doubt that such an approach with this young man would be entirely counterproductive. "
"[R] is no longer a child... In his meeting with me and [the CAFCASS officer] he expressed himself very directly, very bluntly... He made it perfectly clear that he did not want contact with his father at that time... The way in which [R] expresses himself... is in part a manifestation of his condition but it is clear that he remains very resistant to contact."
"I cannot see any way forward today by way of making further orders; that would have in my view entirely the opposite effect of that desired by [the father]."