"I have considered very carefully indeed whether in fact it is right to allow such generous contact, because I have real and genuine concerns about the mother's inability to control her impulsiveness and to control her emotions. It would be tragic, particularly for the mother, if this was to reflect itself in her contact with J. I hope the mother understands how important it is to keep J completely insulated from her feelings towards Mr M. If she is unable to do so, she may find, because there is every justification for doing so in those circumstances, that her contact with J is significantly reduced and controlled. Equally, Mr M will understand that questions of contact and residence are not set in stone for ever, and will be re-visited if circumstances change. I can only express the hope for J's well being, because as I said at the outset of this judgment, he is a delightful little boy, that the parents will both be able to settle their differences and insulate J from their previous dispute. It would be tragic and certainly contrary to J's interests, if this did not take place."
"I need to say something about the judgment of His Honour Judge Tyrer. He described the mother as excitable, grossly over-dramatic, with an element of obstinacy ,strong-willedness and prone to exaggerate in her responses. My own perception of the mother is the same as His Honour Judge Tyrer's."
"My ex-husband ... obtained residence of our young son on total fiction, false allegations, acting and deception in order to get 'divorce of an intelligent man' (his words) and to punish me for 'destroying his career'. Deception is his lifestyle and being very presentable and skilled at extreme untruthfulness and lack of any scruple in reaching a goal, he manages to add three judges to a long list of people he 'played' with including myself, my family, many policemen, his own legal team, girlfriends, the Inland Revenue, DVLA, 75 guests at our wedding, 30 of my relatives at our wedding in Serbia, his former secretary for 10 months and many more. He was extremely untruthful in his divorce papers, solicitor's letters, court statements and in the witness-box. Most were not 'white lies', mistakes or truth distortions, but sheer inventions like my 'having a factory' even. He completely swapped our roles and acted he was a good, responsible father when in truth he was very negligent, selfish, irresponsible party-animal who cared mainly for himself and his ample entertainment leaving [J] and myself on our own most of the time. His abuse of us to 'build a case' is beyond comprehension of an average parent. Nothing about [J's] life in Wales can be totally trusted, if anything."
"He was abusing me and [J] so much I went to my MP, directed to the police, contact women's aid and no one would help. Psychologically a very dangerous man for women. Unscrupulous, selfish and signally immoral."
"I don't think there's anything in this application at all and what I'm going to do is, it's going to be heard 30th June and 1st July, two days. Do we need any further witness statements?"
"I also propose to make prohibited steps orders today against your client [that is the mother], with penal notices attached, precluding them from contacting the child's school. Take instructions, please."
"Your client's behaviour is way, way beyond what is acceptable and it's just going to stop."
"Well, your Honour, she does have parental responsibility."
"She has parental responsibility which she's abusing at present."
"She's riding for a fall."
"Your Honour, we have certainly explained the difficulties ----"
"She's riding for a fall. She may find that I come to the conclusion that contact will have to -- will have to be severely regulated if this conduct continues. That's why I've reserved this matter to myself and I propose to deal with it once and for all."
"... look, the alternatives are this: the -- the 30th July and 1st July are the first available dates that I can do it. If you want to make your application in front of another judge ----"
"No, no, if you want to make your application to have this -- to have this dealt with in -- in some other way, in front of another judge, I'll give you permission to do so, but I don't think you're going to save any time."
"Look, I can't prevent the mother making her application. On the next occasion, I can. I can make -- I can consider whether to invoke the powers under section 93 [I interpolate I think the judge plainly means there section 91(14)], but at present I can't. I have to deal with the matter. I don't propose to order another report, but as -- I'm afraid there's very little I can do. I think the matters will have to be considered. I've already indicated that I don't think very much of the mother's case but I'm allowing two days to make absolutely sure there's sufficient time to deal with it. Miss Bhatia, what are the alternatives?"
"There's not going to be another CAFCASS report."
"It's out of the question."
"I mean, I'll hear why you say -- why you say there should be one."
"Well, I can see no basis I'm afraid for ordering a further CAFCASS report. These matters as to whether Mr M is working and neglecting the child can be dealt with in evidence ..."
"I can't stop her making the application. I have got to set aside two days. I'll set aside two days."
"And if you are kind enough to turn to page 250 of the bundle, I rather gather that your solicitors seem to be suggesting either they or your client feels I'm somehow biased, that I've already decided the matter."
"JUDGE SEROTA: I mean, that's a serious matter. Is that something you stand by, Mr Moat? MR MOAT: Your Honour, I'm in some difficulties, because I wasn't here then, and I haven't actually taken instructions on whether I think -- whether my client thinks your Honour's biased. JUDGE SEROTA: Well, I mean, are you asking me -- if you think I'm biased, are you asking me to recuse myself? MR MOAT: No, I'm not. No. I hadn't asked my ---- JUDGE SEROTA: But I don't find it particularly comfortable when I'm told that I'm biased. MR MOAT: No. When a solicitor writes that, effectively. JUDGE SEROTA: Very well. MR MOAT: Well, Your Honour, I hadn't taken express instructions on that. I mean, there have been lots of documents in this case, and I didn't feel that that was something ---- JUDGE SEROTA: Well, I don't want to make your already difficult job even more difficult. MR MOAT: Well, your Honour's not. But I'm not sure where we go from here. As I understand it, your Honour's hearing this case today and I was going to call my client next. JUDGE SEROTA: Well, I'm somewhat concerned to see that. I can assure you that I have not come to any conclusions about the matter, other than what I've said having read the papers. MR MOAT: Yes. JUDGE SEROTA: And I have an open mind in relation to dispute issues of fact. MR MOAT: Yes. But, your Honour, if I am to put the question to my client, I will do that. JUDGE SEROTA: Well, it's a matter for you. I am just somewhat surprised to see that. MR MOAT: Yes. JUDGE SEROTA: Anyway, I'm in your hands, Mr Moat. If you want to call your client. MR MOAT: I do. May I call her now, your Honour? JUDGE SEROTA: Yes, certainly."
"... I have not come to any conclusions about the matter, other than what I've said having read the papers. ... And I have an open mind in relation to the dispute issues of fact."
"On disposing of any application for an order under this Act, the court may (whether or not it makes any other order in response to the application) order that no application for an order under this Act of any specified kind may be made with respect to the child concerned by any person named in the order without leave of the court."