"I find Mr S to be an emotional man, driven by a passion and an obsession for shared parenting and that he is not a man who is likely to be able to negotiate and to reach agreements other than in circumstances where his view is to be preferred."
"You see, it is very rare, I can tell you this, it is very rare indeed for a court, with a child as young as [E], a joint residence order, in other words, one where the parties following separation effectively share the care of the child. That is very rare for that to happen. It is most unusual. I have never made such an order."
"The experience of these courts is very clearly that children, following the unfortunate breakdown of the parents' relationship, children normally do best in one home with good contact to the other non-residential parent. That is our experience in these courts, and you are facing an uphill task."
"I am quite satisfied on the evidence I have heard that a joint residence order in this particular case, and I emphasise that, would be an absolute disaster."
"It seems to me, looking at the whole history of this case, having seen the parents myself giving evidence, the dynamic between them is not such that sharing [E's] care would be likely to promote her best interests."
"Can I ask your Honour whether you intended to stipulate a period of time for the longer summer holiday contact. I particularly have in mind this year."
"I would not argue against that, your Honour."
"I shall say seven nights this summer but, as I have said, the parties should work towards the aim that [the CFR] spoke about which is that of half each school holiday, half of each half-term and fortnightly weekends."
"I would not argue against that." plainly Mr S should have been on his feet saying, "
"You understand the order I have made?"
"It is a sole residence order for Mrs S with contact to you with the aim that I have indicated and that is very important, that aim is enshrined in the process. You are clear about the details of contact from now?"
"... I am not clear about the aim for one thing. You say the aim is, and in my profession if you say an aim you have a time limit to it or it is meaningless."
"Is there a time limit to the aims being achieved?"
"It needs to be taken at E's pace."
"The history of that is not good, your Honour."
"I am aware of that and that is why I have had to make the observations I have. Mr Osborne, is there any observation you would like to make? The CFR then said: "
"Yes, but next year..."
"That we the situation."
"If I said that it is the aim that the arrangements as I have indicated should be in place by eighteen months' time, would you have any quarrel with that?"
"Between between twelve and eighteen months?"
"That's fair enough."