"This case questions the meaning of contemporary adoption. J lives in close proximity to his paternal family, has frequent contact with them and his brothers. He has a warm relationship with many of his paternal family and 'idolises' his family. Mr B supports his placement. It cannot be feasible to say that Mr B is unreasonably withholding his consent to J's adoption."
"It has to be a long term view, because an adoption order is irrevocable and its effect considerable, since it is inconsistent with a child being a member of two families at the same time. However, it seems to me he can be a part of two families, but of course those parts would not be of equivalent status."
"Two reasonable parents can perfectly reasonably come to opposite conclusions on the same set of facts without forfeiting their title to be regarded as reasonable."